I remember a few years ago, when my sister got married, her husband's family gave her 10 thousand yuan as a bride price. She didn't say that her husband bought clothes, nor did Sanjin. There is no such thing as three gold, and there is no so-called change fee on the wedding day. On the contrary, my parents will wrap red envelopes on my sister's wedding day, but here we haven't heard that her husband's family will wrap red envelopes for the change fee ... but she paid for the wedding banquet.
Of course, our custom here is that the bride price money will not be brought back to her husband's family with her daughter, but is kept by her parents as a dowry, that is, as much as there is dowry money.
It's even easier when it's my turn, because we don't think it's troublesome to have a wedding, so we choose to travel and get married at a tired pace. My husband gave me 30 thousand pieces of bride price, and my mother-in-law gave me a set of gold ornaments at that time, so the two families got together for a meal and it was over. Before the wedding, I told my mother not to buy me those messy dowries, and I couldn't bring big things, because I was married far away. Finally, my mother and father gave me a set of gold ornaments.
Later, after chatting with colleagues from other provinces, I learned that many of the other parties have high gifts, and the honor gift is100000, and the man has to prepare a house, a car, three golds and new clothes. It's really scary. No wonder many men in China are single because they have no money to marry.
I think? In fact, bride price is a bad habit in China. Two people get married because they love each other, and eventually they may break up because the bride price can't be settled. What a pity! Isn't the bride price just wool on the sheep? I think China should be like the west, without any bride price, as long as the couple live well. Why do parents interfere so much?