It means that your in-laws invited you (to get married).

Otherwise, after the quarrel, your husband can say, I didn't carry you to the door, but you sent it yourself.

Today's wedding car is the same as before.

In ancient times, it was a man who carried a red sedan chair to pick up the bride. How can the bride prepare her own sedan chair and deliver it to her door?

It's a little unreasonable for your husband's family to argue with you even about this.

If there is really no money, everyone will discuss it, and it doesn't matter if the woman posts it, but it is wrong to force the woman to pay.