Many brides don't like being covered with so much gold. Covered in gold, it's not very beautiful, but it's enviable. A few pounds of gold make people shine.
First, the elders have a good face.
Many elders think that the more gold jewelry the bride wears, the more ostentation and extravagance, and the more face she has. Wearing a diamond ring on your hand, others don't know if you are true or not, but wearing gold on your body, others will know that it is true.
In Fujian, many brides bring gold and silver jewelry, which are given by relatives and friends. Many lighter relatives don't wrap red envelopes and send jewelry directly. There may be more than one person with money, and two people without money may also send a gold ornament together. Therefore, relatives who are very close here will give it out of face, and many rich people don't care. Give more. The whole family has face.
It is also very important that the more gold jewelry the woman wears, the more affordable the man's family will be. The woman's position in the man's family will be higher. The verdict tells me that our man's family is very strong and we can't bully our daughter. He has such a strong backer.
Don't think that gold is heavy. Actually, it's thinner Just look at the gold shops around here. However, although thin, it can't resist its size. So it is still very expensive, and the quantity is large. Take a few kilograms with you, and some are more than that.
Second, the preservation of gold.
So many young people may prefer diamond rings, but in the eyes of the older generation, gold is the most valuable. What does gold mean to money?
After marriage, the gold is collected, which is also the dowry of the woman. Gold is generally not used unless absolutely necessary. It can be passed on to the younger generation in the future, so gold is also the favorite of Fujian people.
Generally, Fujian people don't bring so much gold, mainly because not everyone in Fujian is so rich, which is just a custom in some places.
But at least there are necklaces, earrings and rings. This place is called Sanjin, which is standard. Many relatives send rings, but bracelets are too expensive. Most people have no economic strength. These rings will be worn on your hands, and often all ten fingers are full. ?
I think wedding money is something we can do according to our own ability. Don't buy so much gold to save face. After all, we are just ordinary people and can't compare with these rich people.