May 20, 2009 may not be the right time, and another is that maybe the man's parents don't agree with you, so if you don't meet, start with the man and persuade the boy to persuade his parents to meet (if it's time to talk about marriage). If you don't agree, why argue for a while? Q: But there is no money at home for the man who has a reason not to meet. Oh, yes. I think when parents meet, they should talk about marriage and ask for money. Ah, well, here's the problem. Do you want to see your parents because you want to get married, or do you want to see your parents for other reasons? Moreover, they just want to talk about marriage and don't want to get married right away. This requires you to communicate with your boyfriend and let him say that he doesn't want to get married immediately even if he meets you. Don't worry, you just want to meet both parents. Follow-up: all this has been done. If I am afraid of rushing, it will make the man's parents think that I am a little unable to get married. Answer: Well, maybe I will. Don't rush it, girl. Let them take the initiative. My situation is similar to yours. I used to be. I kept urging him. The man's family was also worried about this. Oh, in the future, I will leave it alone. You can do whatever you want. From now on, don't talk about meeting and getting married. Oh, they will be in a hurry then. Elinae's speech: Thank you.