Widowhood year, as its name implies, is a belief in the tradition of the ancients. Women who get married within this year will be widowed, so that their husbands will die and become widows. And this concept has been used to this day. However, with the development of science, some people no longer believe this statement, but from the perspective of marriage feng shui, there are still some taboos in getting married in the widow's year.

Marriage taboo 1: avoid eating wedding cakes.

Wedding cake is a symbol of happiness. The custom of distributing wedding cake is intended to share the joy of the wedding and convey the news of the wedding to every relative and friend through the wedding cake. When giving a big gift, the bride should remember not to eat the wedding cake given by the man, because it symbolizes eating her joy and should be taboo.

Marriage taboo 2: avoid the second incense

Many traditional families will tell their ancestors or gods to burn incense before they marry their daughters. In addition to offering cakes, the woman should also pay attention to incense and try not to insert the incense head askew. If it is crooked, don't pull it out and insert it again, because Erxiang means remarriage, which is unlucky for the newlyweds.

Marriage taboo 3: The groom is not allowed to sleep alone on the wedding bed.

New quilts, new pillows, new bedding ... impeccably dressed wedding beds should be placed on the eve of the wedding night. In this process, it is forbidden for the groom-to-be to sleep alone in the new bed, because it means loneliness after marriage, which is very unlucky. If the groom really has no other place to rest, he can find a big zodiac to sleep with underage boys, such as the dragon of the zodiac.

Marriage taboo 4: avoid saying "goodbye"

When relatives and friends leave after marriage, neither the newlyweds nor their relatives and friends can say "goodbye" because the word "goodbye" means parting and parting, which is very bad for newlyweds. Therefore, when the couple sends the guests off, they should nod or wave goodbye.

Marriage taboo 5: avoid visiting.

The taboo that brides don't need to visit relatives and friends on their honeymoon has been handed down from ancient times. Because most people have a taboo psychology towards the bride during their honeymoon, and think it is unlucky for others, and this ominous feeling will not be eliminated until after January, so the bride can't stop by during the honeymoon. In particular, some relatives and friends with elderly people should pay special attention not to visit during the honeymoon period.

Marriage taboo 6: avoid sending pregnant women.

On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, pregnant women can't see her off, because in ancient times, people thought that seeing her off would bring accidents to the couple, so when the bride gets married, pregnant women should avoid it. Moreover, when the bride goes out, fireworks are often set off. There are many people, the scene is crowded and noisy, and the air is turbid. For the sake of pregnant women's health, they should not be allowed to join the farewell party.

Marriage taboo 7: avoid staying at home within three days after marriage.

In the traditional custom of China, the groom will accompany his wife back to her parents' home three days after marriage, which is called "going back to her parents' home". It should be noted that on the day of "returning home", you must return to your husband's house before sunset to avoid the husband and wife staying at home together, because it is generally believed that this will bring bad luck to your family. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the couple should sleep separately to try to resolve the sense of foreboding.