According to last year's data report, there are more than 200 million unmarried people in China, and more and more people are unwilling to get married, not only in cities but also in rural areas. They are unmarried, afraid of marriage and advocate singleness. This is also the reason why the number of married people has been declining year after year.

At the same time, with the popularity of the Internet, the spread of short video platforms has increased infinitely, and people's social needs have moved from reality to the network. Moreover, the marriage and love values and parenting concepts of various online segments make singles more marketable, resulting in less demand for marriage among young people. A person is ok, naturally getting married is getting later and later, and it is getting harder and harder.

Second, economic factors.

Of course, the majority of men in rural society want to get married, mainly because the rural family concept is strong, and the older generation needs to get married to carry on the family line.

However, I have to say that wanting to get married is not a matter of getting married. Nowadays, rural marriage has entered involution since blind date. Car, house and bride price are prerequisites, so it is naturally difficult for young men from poor families to get married. At the same time, work, education, personality and appearance are also the requirements of many women, thus brushing off a group of men, making it basically impossible for many men with poor economy, average appearance, low education and poor work to get married.

Therefore, money is not everything, but it is absolutely impossible without money, because there are more people in this society or material world. After all, neither women themselves nor their families are willing to work hard after marriage. It would be better if they could enjoy their achievements. You should know, but not like those who used to be poor together.

Third, there are too few resources.

So, if you want to get married and have some money, is it easy to get married? Of course not. If you want to get married, you have to have someone. But according to demographic data, there are nearly 40 million more men than women in China. Even if the age of marriage is two years older than that of women, there are still 30 million people who can't get married according to monogamy. Therefore, there is an online saying that there are 30 million "bachelors" in rural areas.

At present, cities far surpass cities in employment, especially in education. Therefore, most rural girls began to enter the city in the best years. Compared with urban men, rural men are completely uncompetitive in marriage, resulting in fewer and fewer girls staying in rural areas and too few female resources, so it is natural to get married.

The problem of rural men's difficulty in getting married has been raised almost every Spring Festival in recent years, and some experts have given solutions, such as restricting bride price, transnational marriage and love, and some experts advocate polygamy.

Of course, we know that the most fundamental reason is the imbalance between men and women. Therefore, only by abolishing the concept of son preference, fetal sex identification and abortion, can these problems be solved in the future, and of course, the living burden of ordinary people should be reduced, so that people can afford to support, support, get sick and die, whether in marriage, parenting, housing, old-age care or medical care!