During the National Day, as a good friend, I entered the series of six bridesmaids and witnessed this happy, dreamy and touching moment with my own eyes. Actually, it's not the second time that I attended the wedding as a bridesmaid. I went for the first time as a bridesmaid and cousin. Weddings are ordinary. At that time, I only thought this brother-in-law was ok, full of personality, and had no other special feelings and fantasies. But this time is different. The layout of the wedding scene gives people a romantic reverie that seems far from near. Lawn wedding and red and white colors make countless girls look forward to it (ps: the wedding scene is as follows); The bride and groom's vows of eternal love pushed the emotional threshold of the wedding guests to the peak, and everyone was moved to tears, and this scene was more than once. It is conceivable that the true confession and memories between the bride and groom, and the sincere gratitude of the bride and groom to their parents are deeply rooted in people's hearts. No, it should be said, because these words almost hit the hearts of our group of men and women who are about to get married (especially 12 bridesmaid group), causing everyone's * * * sound. I can't even help but think about how I should spit with my other half on such an important occasion in the future.

When I came back from the wedding, one of the bridesmaids, who was also my high school classmate and friend, was deeply moved after seeing the wedding. She can't help but begin to imagine and book what kind of high-end hotel wedding her future wedding will be and how her future partner will meet her own standards. During the wedding, I talked about my other half and my ideal several times. In fact, the final answer to the question is that there is no standard answer and no ideal perfect fit. Because the other half is real, it is only a matter of time before they appear and meet, but the ideal is always difficult to fully achieve and realize.

I remember that in my middle school days, there was a good saying: the ideal is full and the reality is very skinny. Of course, the ideal type is the dream of countless girls, but it is undoubtedly the most difficult to achieve. Maybe one day you will meet such an ideal type. His height, face value, ability, future/money path all meet your expectations. He is gentle and impeccable, and occasionally adds some romantic genes (ps: do you feel like walking in the clouds when you hear these beautiful words? However, when I come back to real life, I hear more about occasional criticism, intermittent complaints and a lot of helplessness. So far, no one among friends or others has said that her other half has met all expectations. Having said that, I suddenly thought of another sentence: an imperfect combination will make two people more perfect! This sentence suddenly occurred to me in the process of chatting with you. Thank you! )

What is your ideal partner? What is the reality? What's your new opinion on this? Welcome to exchange discussions in the message area!

Ji

On the train 20 19. 10.04