It's not that your method is wrong, but that love is hard to find before fate. As the saying goes, flowers can't be planted with heart, but willows can't be planted with heart. Be yourself, love life, treat people sincerely, and be honest and trustworthy. In the journey of life, you will always meet your other half at some time. Don't force love, face life calmly, what should come will come, and what should go can't be caught.