Matters needing attention in attending a wedding Many people will be invited to attend the wedding, especially some bosses will be invited by employees. For many people, the wedding is a major event in life, and there are many things to pay attention to. So, what are the precautions for attending a wedding?
Matters needing attention in wedding 1
1, don't strive to be a "bully"
Speak on the stage according to your ability, or obey the arrangement when taking wedding photos. Of course, if the newcomer invites you to thank you on stage or other entertainment programs, you should not be too formal.
2. Arrive at the scene on time
After the wedding time is determined, guests should arrive at the scene half an hour before the wedding day. Don't oversleep, be careless, arrive late and leave early (except in special circumstances). This is the most basic etiquette, which needs attention.
If you are late or leave early, you should inform the other party in advance.
If you are going to be late or leave early, you should inform the other party in advance. When you are late, don't enter the meeting alone. You'd better ask the receptionist to take you in. If you want to leave early, you'd better wait until all the guests have finished speaking. You don't need to say hello to the bride and groom when you leave, but you should say hello to the people on both sides of the table.
Don't talk loudly when the wedding is going on.
Although the wedding day is worthy of everyone's happiness, we can be happy when we are happy, but we can't make noise when the wedding is going on. We need to take care of the feelings of all the guests present, and such a move also takes away the aura of the protagonist, causing everyone's attention to come to you, thus snubbing the couple.
When you sit down, you should greet the people at the next table first.
If the person at your desk is a stranger, you should also show a happy mood. Before taking a seat, introduce yourself to the people at the same table, so as not to be embarrassed, but don't make yourself too conspicuous.
6. Accept the wine when it is good.
On the wine table, we often encounter the phenomenon of persuading wine. Some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough. "Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, excessive persuasion will completely destroy the feelings of the original friends.
7. Let the children fool around.
It is common to take naughty children to the wedding. However, children should not be allowed to frolic in the wedding venue with them. You need to restrain your children at all times. If you stay at the wedding scene, there is a great chance of an accident, which will also bring unnecessary trouble to the couple.
8. Try not to express personal opinions on the details of the wedding.
When attending a wedding, everyone may have their own comments on the wedding, but this is a day for newcomers, so as a guest, try to avoid negative emotions or remarks.
9. Don't pretend to be the master.
Whether you are a new friend of the bride and groom, try not to take up too much time of the bride and groom, because the whole wedding process is actually very tense.
Matters needing attention in wedding 2 1. Don't upstage the bride. At present, brides wear both western-style wedding dresses and Chinese dresses. In order not to steal the bride's thunder, white or light beige series and big red should not be worn. If the bride lets you wear it, that's another matter. In addition, don't show your breasts topless, which will attract too much attention. No matter how beautiful they are, women should not dress better than brides.
2. Dressing casually is a major event in the life of newcomers. Dressing neatly is the basic respect for the host. The clothes of male guests are relatively simple, including suits, shirts and ties. But remember to wear black shoes with black socks, and absolutely avoid colors and styles and the groom's shirt. If possible, you'd better change it. If not, please try to keep a low profile. Women's requirements are more complicated. If you just attend a banquet, a suit and dress will be fine, and wearing black mesh socks for a wedding is not formal. If you go to a formal wedding, you'd better take off the pearls and tie them with a black ribbon, or put on a small and chic suit. Formal weddings need respect, especially when held in traditional temples or cathedrals. If there is a dance after the wedding banquet, or the host indicates it on the invitation, you should also wear a more grand dress. It is said that in Japan, all the ladies attending the wedding should wear kimonos, and they are specially prepared for the wedding, which shows how grand it is. No matter how gorgeous you dress, you should remember that you should never be too topless to attract too much attention. If the groom keeps winking, then you will be missed by the bride for life.
3. Don't judge the bride. Weddings are public places. Can you confirm the identities of all the guests sitting next to you? Maybe your teasing fell into the ears of the woman's relatives and friends. You know, people will be husband and wife in the future, and you, an outsider, are likely to be removed from the groom's friend list by the bride and lose a friend for no reason. Even if you are a good friend of the groom, or have a crush on him, looking at the woman in the wedding dress really thinks that the groom didn't find a flower in this pile of cow dung, but it still says that the wedding day belongs to the bride. Even if the wedding dress looks like a cake, even if it looks like a natural disaster.