The psychological counseling industry is developing in full swing, and various psychological counseling centers and institutions abound, which dazzles the help seekers. People who spend the same money for help should choose reliable consulting institutions, not to mention treating diseases! Therefore, psychological counseling depends on the consulting concept of psychological counseling institutions. If the idea is wrong, the direction of consultation is wrong. Not only ineffective, but also counterproductive. Nowadays, the level of psychological counselors in China is mixed. In fact, psychological counseling should be more like seeing a doctor, and it will be effective to "prescribe the right medicine" according to the characteristics of the helper.
As professional psychological counselors, we should serve the visitors and consult according to the characteristics of China visitors. "Take people's money and eliminate disasters with others", a truth that even the most ordinary small vendors understand, should be understood by highly educated psychological counselors.
But now many consultants have a color of worshipping foreign things and obsessing foreign things, as if foreign psychology represents the forefront of psychology. Therefore, no matter the books you read, the classes you attend, or even the textbooks of China University, most of them are directly translated from foreign books, completely copying western psychology. Therefore, most consultants apply the knowledge, ideas, theories and technologies of western psychology to our own compatriots in China, completely ignoring the national conditions and culture of China, which is neither in line with the eastern culture nor with the national conditions of China. Even some psychological counselors still hold the shallow counseling idea that "you come to consult and give me money just to let me listen to you" or "psychological counseling does not solve practical problems, but only psychological problems". This is all wrong, from ineffective counseling to misguided help-seekers, and even makes help-seekers no longer trust psychological counseling and lose good treatment opportunities.
It is difficult to change a person, so psychological counselors need to know the principle of following the offspring first according to the characteristics of the seekers, and help the visitors to make progress step by step.
Listening to hospice counseling is different from them. Listening to Pinghe psychological counseling has its own set of counseling ideas suitable for China's help-seekers.
For example:
"Psychological counseling is for visitors."
"Psychological counseling should be based on reality, not books."
"Psychological counseling has three goals: one is to meet the reasonable needs of visitors; Second, let visitors adapt to this society more; Third, promote the growth of visitors' personality. "
"Psychological counselors are people who flexibly apply psychological knowledge to their lives, not porters of psychological knowledge. It is not a defender of knowledge, theory and morality. "
"The book says that psychological counseling only solves psychological problems and does not solve practical problems. This is not right. Sometimes you can't solve psychological problems without solving practical problems. Being a psychological counselor in China sometimes tells visitors directly what to do like a military consultant. "
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The above is the idea of listening and consulting. In short, grounding gas is effective. The purpose of listening to Anning psychological counseling is that "psychological counseling is for visitors, and the effect is the last word."
In psychological counseling, the concept of counseling is very important, and the effect will be discounted if the technology is not proficient and the theory is not solid. But if the concept is wrong, the direction will be wrong, which will not only help others solve the problem, but also delay the time of visitors. What is even more frightening is to make the problem of visitors more and more serious. Learning psychological counseling can't just follow the book, nor can it just follow the teacher. More importantly, follow the help-seekers and learn how to do psychological counseling. Therefore, to be a psychological counselor, it is not the teacher who says you will pass the exam, but the helper who says the counseling is really good.
Listening to Ping An is professional enough.
Psychological counselors who listen to Anning psychological counseling are all from psychology majors in universities all over the country, and have obtained the qualification certificate of psychological counselors, which has a solid theoretical foundation. And if I listen to peace for a long time, I have a steady and steady practical ability, which is absolutely different from the theory of some consultants on paper.
Some people may think that a counselor who listens to peace is very young. But because you are young, you are a professional. Strictly speaking, psychological counseling began to rise in China in the 1980s, and it didn't come into people's sight until the 1990s or even the early 20th century. Almost all the older counselors are half-way monks. In fact, the psychological counseling industry is not a consultant who is considered to have more experience and become a monk halfway. Some of their personal life experiences will hinder the study of psychology, which is called "negative transfer" in psychology. Some of their life experiences will affect their counseling ideas. These ideas are right and good. If they are wrong and they are deeply rooted in the counselor's mind, they will be extremely misleading to the seeker. Therefore, the field of psychological counseling is not becoming more and more professional with the growth of age. Psychological counseling depends not on experience, but on specialty.
In addition, listening can completely cure mental illness without leaving symptoms!
In the treatment of mental illness, it has been said that "living with symptoms". In the psychiatric department of the hospital, it is more important to treat patients with complex mental illness through simple drugs. In fact, these statements and practices are excuses and excuses for the inability to eradicate mental illness treatment. On the basis of long-term practice, Ting Anning summed up a set of methods and skills to completely eradicate psychological ills with advanced consulting concepts, and advocated "completely curing without leaving symptoms".
In the 30 years' development of China, the psychological counseling industry has eliminated too many psychological counseling technologies that are not suitable for local culture, and many psychological counseling institutions have declined or even closed down. However, listening to peace has gone further and further and spread to the whole country. This also shows that it is the elite and the essence that can stand the test of time.
Listen to peace and experience.
In some institutions in the psychological counseling industry, counseling and training are available. Because their counselors' consulting level is limited, they can't make a living by consulting alone, because they turn to training to serve psychological counseling enthusiasts. Listening to Anning Psychological Counseling has been engaged in professional psychological counseling and psychotherapy since it was founded on 20 12, and there is no other second job. Because of the good effect, the turn-back rate of the help seekers is relatively high, and the help seekers also help us recommend new help seekers ... In this way, the help seekers who listen to peace keep coming.
In order to live up to the trust of help seekers, Listening to Anning Psychological Counseling has been focusing on the research and treatment of psychological problems and mental illness. Accumulated a lot of consulting cases, including a large number of emotional problems in marriage and love (including emotional recovery, chasing the opposite sex, lovelorn, on the verge of divorce, marital conflicts and so on. ), interpersonal problems, children and adolescents (including school weariness, puppy love, internet addiction, rebellion, poor self-control, hyperactivity, inattention, etc. ), workplace psychological problems (including career choices, workplace interpersonal relationships, etc. ), neurosis (including anxiety, phobia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, phobia, hypochondria, bulimia, anorexia, etc. ), psychosexual disorders (including psychogenic impotence, premature ejaculation, frigidity, transvestite, fetishism, procrastination, homosexuality, etc. ), insomnia, procrastination and schizophrenia.
Ma Chengning, a psychologist who listened to Anning, once helped a schizophrenic get rid of drugs completely and recovered completely for three and a half years.
Listen to peace and be responsible.
Listening to hospice counseling is more responsible than other psychological counseling institutions.
First of all, the counselors who listen to Anning are full-time counselors who listen to Anning, and listening to Anning psychological counseling has absolute control over counselors. Rather than some other institutions, there is a cooperative relationship between consultants and institutions. Institutions attract visitors for consultants, who are divided into institutions after consultation, and their consultants are also part-time consultants. Institutions have no ability to supervise consultants' consulting ideas, consulting techniques, consulting skills and consulting level. However, all the counselors who listen to Anning are controlled by the system. Listening to Anning will assess the consultant's concept, theory, technology and level. If it does not conform to the concept of listening to peace, and the theoretical and technical department has passed the test, we are not allowed to accept cases.
Second, listening to peace and psychological counseling is a team counseling for each case, which is another big advantage of listening to peace and psychological counseling. Different from other institutions, listening to hospice counseling requires team supervision for every counseling case, no matter which consultant answers it. So, on the surface, a consultant consults a helper, but behind it is the wisdom of the whole team. So, on the surface, some help-seekers are receiving consultation or treatment from junior consultant 400 yuan/hour, but in fact, there are authoritative experts behind them, which is equivalent to that the help-seekers are receiving expert supervision for 2000/ hour.
Thirdly, if the customer chooses a low-priced consultant to consult and pays a one-time fee according to the course of treatment, and the consultant finds that his level is not enough to help the customer after consulting once, then after obtaining the consent of the customer, Listening Anning will assign a high-priced consultant to consult for the customer without extra charge. For example, the customer initially chooses a 600-hour consultant for consultation and pays a one-time fee of 6,000 yuan. After a consultation, the consultant found that the customer's problems were beyond his ability. After obtaining the customer's consent, Ting Anning will assign 800/ hour or 1000/ hour consultants to help customers, and consult them at the price of 600/ hour, and the whole process will not be repeated.
Fourth, in the attitude of being responsible for visitors, the basic work such as answering the phone, receiving visitors and arranging consultation is done by psychologists, not so-called assistants.
All of the above are responsible manifestations of listening to peaceful psychological counseling. We serve our customers wholeheartedly, hoping that customers can really get the most efficient psychological consultation and psychotherapy services.