1. The "should I write" in the question itself has the nature of judging right and wrong, which is too fixed. Answer "Yes" means you should write, and answer "No" means you shouldn't write. Then it is wrong to write or not, and it is also wrong to write or not. So the word "should" can be replaced by the word "can", that is, "can you write?" Right or wrong is not a matter of choice. The important thing is whether you can do it.

2. You probably understand the meaning of "the joy of going home", which comes from The Book of Songs, National Style, Nan Zhou Yao Tao. Returning home means that women get married. There are three sentences in the original text, "Peach blossoms are in bloom". In the original text, "Peach flies away" is a compliment, but in modern characters it often means "running away". The meaning of Baidu Encyclopedia is interpreted as: "Escape comes from the death of peach blossoms, which were originally described as lush and gorgeous. Later, he said that he escaped without a trace. " I won't say more about the second point.

Children born in 1970s and 1980s (young people of marriageable age) are mostly only children, and both parents expect them to take the family that raised them as their home after marriage. As most parents say at their children's wedding, I hope they have a small family and don't forget everyone. How much emotion, sadness, expectation and helplessness are contained between the lines!

4. On the surface, retro or following the trend is advancing with the times in a certain historical stage, but it is retrogressive from the overall process of social development. In my opinion, the word "married woman" will eventually quit the ranks of people's communication language.

5. The universality of invitation language should also be considered, so I won't go into details here.

I hope you'll think about it.

I hope you can forgive my mistake.