This question is raised in the preview MV of Shanghai women's picture books-why did you come to Shanghai? Some people like the environment here, some people are used to being here alone, some people want to break into a world, and some people take a fancy to the food here.
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There are all kinds of answers, but most people's answers can't escape a theme-"I want to stay here and try." Just like the heroine Luo Haiyan, she can follow her first boyfriend back to her hometown to have a stable job and form a happy family, but "I want to be like them".
Most of the girls who are willing to float in the north and the south are like Luo Haiyan now, eager for the city they choose to carry their little dreams and make themselves different-independent, exquisite, free and calm.
In addition to the similar purpose of staying in a big city, even the ignorant look is so similar. During the interview, I dared to carry a canvas bag on the stage. I only dare to wear an old-fashioned black and white shirt. If the shirt is dirty, I can change into a vest. I haven't got rid of the immature student spirit at all.
Stubbornly clinging to your own name, even though your colleagues have reminded you to take an English name, you still don't care, and you stupidly take Zhang Ziyi's English name as "Ziyi" as an example, trying to prove that you can be different. However, I forgot, working in a foreign company, there is no need to keep your personality in this kind of thing. Foreign customers can't remember your name, which is not conducive to your integration into the new environment.
Ask your boss every detail, even the template, color and format of PPT ... but I didn't realize that your boss invited you back to solve the problem, not create it. The workplace is not a school, and no one has the obligation to teach you this.
I tried to do PPT, but I was the keynote speaker by other colleagues. I thought it was right for me to complain to my boss, but I missed the point at all. You lost this credit because the boss didn't trust your English. The clients of the proposal are all foreigners. What I need is a fluent English speech, and you don't even have an English name.
Stumbling is too much like when we first entered the workplace. Fortunately, Luo Haiyan finally learned to change herself, changed her hairstyle and signed up for an English class to improve her appearance and business. Instead of refusing to eat with colleagues in order to save money, I learned to communicate with colleagues at dinner and understand the work situation.
Luo Haiyan represents a kind of girl, trying to stay in this city and become the person she wants to be. But my colleague Kate is a different kind of person-they were born in a better family, and there may be some criticism from the outside world, but they don't care. They have the ability and know where their advantages lie, but they are more content with the status quo without the idea of becoming a strong woman.
When Luo Haiyan changed to work in a black, white and gray suit, Kate appeared in a pink suit. What is taken out of the bag is a full set of cosmetics, and even the work label should be covered with a specially prepared pink shell.
Luo Haiyan doesn't even know where the cup is, but Kate has been able to skillfully use the coffee machine in the tea room. She saw that the vice president was going to make coffee, so she gave her coffee to the vice president, which was not flattering but just right.
At work, she can recite it clearly. Because of the differences between PPT and Luo Haiyan, other colleagues are waiting to see their jokes. When she went to work in public, she left Luo Haiyan to finish the same task. In fact, she bought a bunch of snacks to work overtime, and also taught Luo Haiyan a lot of Excel usage, debunking the workplace rules-small companies do things, big companies are people.
She doesn't work hard, her working ability is no worse than others, and even more transparent than many people, but her mind is not at work. She can generously say, "Not everyone wants to be a strong woman. Our dream in Shanghai is to wear Wang Weiwei's wedding dress before the age of 30 and hold a wedding on the lawn like a French manor. "
She is the kind of person we admire. She has the ability to be measured, but occasionally coquetry is not boring. More importantly, she is calm and confident. We hit a wall everywhere, and when faced with embarrassment and embarrassment, she can always cope with it easily.
The most enviable thing is that her exquisiteness and calmness do not need to work hard in the workplace, but are related to her growing environment. Although I don't want to admit it, some people are really born lucky. If I had a choice, who wouldn't want to be such a person?
But whether we are Luo Haiyan, Kate or others, no matter who you are now or who you want to be in the future, please remember-you can envy others, but you can't lose yourself. The only thing you can grasp is that you are a little better today than you were yesterday.
I really don't need any hairstyle, as long as my mother is comfortable!
Judging from the present hairdressing tec