Whether it will be noisy is only related to who you know at home, not this place. If you don't want to get into trouble, make it clear to your partner in advance. Where is your bottom line? It's ok to be lively, but the bottom line must not be crossed. Before getting married, all the brothers and sisters are invited out for dinner to get to know each other, and the banquet also directly explains the situation. Everyone should respect each other and be happy. Tell your date seriously and don't let him think you are joking.