Many couples usually get along well, but there are problems in the process of talking about marriage, and nine times out of ten, it is the bride price problem. According to the secular point of view, the bride price is actually compensation for the bride's family. After all, in the past 20 years, the child has been pampered and raised by people, and it took countless efforts to finally grow into an excellent girl. Before he can express his love, a boy is gearing up to marry his daughter, which is the saying of bride price.
The woman talked about marriage and asked for a bride price of 654.38+ 10,000. Should the man agree? According to my personal opinion, the bride price of 654.38+ 10,000 yuan is already a very low standard, which may be the cost of compression and recompression for the sake of the man's kindness to his daughter. After all, many parents who love their daughters will actually return their dowry at the same price or even higher. For the woman's parents, this bride price is a sense of security and guarantee for the distant daughter.
In this world, no one can guarantee that marriage will be smooth sailing, happy and carefree, and will never die. Marriage is a daily life of daily necessities, and there must be difficulties and lack of money. When she encounters difficulties and can't turn back, this bride price (or later dowry) can provide her with buffer time, which is the amulet left by the woman's parents to her daughter where she can't see it. Therefore, if she meets a girl who only asks for a 65438+ gift, she should give it immediately. Such good in-laws and girls are rare.