Shanwei, located in the southeast coast of Guangdong Province, is the intersection of Minnan culture, Guangfu culture and Hakka culture, with diverse cultures and compatibility, and is known as the "hometown of folk culture and art in China". The marriage customs in Shanwei are also the result of the convergence and integration of various cultures. What are the wedding customs in Shanwei?

First of all, the man wants the client to propose marriage to the woman's family. The matchmaker must not go to the woman's house empty-handed, so the custom in Shanwei is that the matchmaker brings cigarettes, sugar, tea and olives, which is also called "four-style ceremony". Why is it called "four-ceremony"? Generally speaking, in our concept, "four" is unlucky. However, Shanwei people think that "four" and "the world" are homophonic, and giving four gifts means harmony from generation to generation. Thirdly, "smoke" is the same as "marriage", indicating the sincerity of the man's proposal. "Tea" was originally abundant in the south, and giving it away is also an essential thing. "Sugar" is sweet, harmonious and beautiful. Olive fruit generally refers to "orange" and "orange", both of which have auspicious meanings. But generally do not send apples, because "apple" and "poor" are homophonic.

? If the woman accepts the man's four-style gift, it is equivalent to agreeing to the man's proposal. Then the man will ask the matchmaker to go to the woman's house to ask her birthday. After the man determines the wedding date, he can inform the woman. At the same time, you can also prepare a bride price list, which can also be called "betrothal gift"-that is, list the bride price of the man with 12 red folding stickers. The suffix of engagement money should have the word "four", which means "handed down from generation to generation". Now people prefer to use "eight" to mean getting rich. ? Of course, the woman should also return the gift, usually with canna, red eggs, red silk rope and so on. Canna is a pair, symbolizing the new person and beauty. Red eggs have the meaning of "leading the way chicken", which means good luck. ? There are some things to pay attention to when getting married in Shanwei. On the wedding day, there must be "honey food" as cake food to entertain guests. This kind of cake is a specialty of Shantou. It is made of some assorted sweets. Just like in some places, giving wedding candy is the same thing. Prepare enough assorted sweets, otherwise it will appear that the man is stingy and unpretentious.