Supporting roles in weddings: What should parents and elders pay attention to at weddings?
We mainly choose dresses according to the time, place and occasion of the wedding. If the wedding is held in the morning, dad can wear a small dress, that is, a black tuxedo top (about the same length as a suit) and black pants, a black bow tie and a black waist seal (vest). Mom can wear a good texture dress and a hat with eaves in the same series. If the wedding is held in the banquet hall at night, dad can wear a small dress or a more formal tuxedo, and mom can wear a long skirt with lace or fur shawl. If it is a relaxing outdoor occasion, my father wears a suit and my mother wears short sleeves. Of course, mothers can also choose luxurious cheongsam, but if dad needs to go out with the bride in a wedding dress, it is best not to wear Hanfu to avoid disharmony. A: Generally speaking, the main table 1 is back to the stage, and the two seats facing everyone are reserved for newcomers. The parents of the bride and groom are on both sides of the two seats, but at the actual wedding reception in China, seats are usually not reserved for the newlyweds. It is suggested that the four positions closest to the stage on the main table be reserved for parents so that they can have the best viewing position and serve tea more conveniently. The elders are mainly arranged at the front main table according to their seniority, age and guest and host status to show their respect. (1) Generally speaking, from the main table, respect comes according to seniority and age. If they are friends of their parents, the couple are not particularly familiar with each other, and parents usually take the lead in toasting. Many elders like to send good wishes to the couple, so at the grand wedding banquet, we must prepare the microphone and keep the communication smooth, which is a respect for them. Pay attention to controlling the speed of toasting. Generally, all elders can have a drink at the dinner table in case many guests have no time to say hello to the couple when they leave. (1) If there are guests with mobility difficulties, when choosing a hotel, pay attention to whether there are barrier-free entrances, elevators and toilets, greet the hotel to make corresponding settings, or arrange special personnel to take care of them. Eating and doing activities should also give full consideration to their needs. You can't ignore your parents at the wedding. All the gifts and interactions that show your true feelings will make your parents have a profound experience and feeling at the wedding. There are generally two kinds of gifts for parents: one is to recall the past, such as a bear, a portrait of a family portrait, and a heartfelt photo taken by a newcomer to the hospital where he was born. Of course, this nostalgic way can easily make parents cry on the spot; For more emotional parents, they still focus on the second kind, that is, the gift of looking forward to a better future. For example, parents' travel holidays, movie tickets for couples, gloves, scarves, mobile phones and other practical items. Of course, there are also some new people who like innovation and will make their parents laugh at the wedding. Once, some new people tickled their parents, which meant that they had a wonderful old age and it was also very interesting.