I am always immersed in joy and happiness these days, but my son's words always haunt me. That is, I held a family wrap-up meeting at home on New Year's Day. At the end of the meeting, I gave you a simple evaluation. My son actually called me a "tiger" and always talked to him loudly. Although my son soon finished his evaluation of me, I didn't forget his words. That's what my son said. It seems that he is already very dissatisfied. I'm happy and sad to say it. Happily, my son and I have always been like friends, never hiding; Sadly, I am such an image in my son's heart! Although I made a statement immediately at that time, I will pay attention to it in the future, but I have always had a knot in my heart, and it is a little sad to love his son. I think it's time for me to talk to my son. After reading my son's enthusiastic message on the blog last night, I went straight to the point and let me have a heart-to-heart communication with my son.
"Son, are you very excited these two days?"
"Yes, mom, I'm very happy. Now I am looking forward to the school ICT certificate. "
"What do you think of what mom did?"
"Well, my mother got her parents' wrists, and I am very happy! "
"Do I still look like a big tiger?"
"Hee hee, mom, do you remember what I said the other day? I said that you always talk to me loudly and say that you are a tiger, right? " The little guy knows, and he knows, hehe.
"Yes, my mother is very sad. I am a big tiger. Don't you feel uncomfortable and nervous living with the big tiger every day? "
"O(∩_∩)O Haha ~, no, because you are my mother, but sometimes you speak loudly and feel as fierce as a tiger. Are you angry, mom? "
"No, you can really express your thoughts and let your mother know that what she has done is inappropriate in some places, and she can correct it in time. If you don't tell me, mom will still be like before, and you don't like me, do you? "
"Yes, I hope my mother will correct her mistake." Hee hee, the young man also wants me to correct my mistakes. He always said that my son was wrong. In his mind, I am also a mother with shortcomings and deficiencies. Listen to his heart.
"Well, mom and you talk it over today. You can say anything. In short, it must be what you really think. Mom is not angry. "
"Well, I really like my mother. You always play crazy with me, do a lot of things I want to do, buy me a lot of books I like to read, and my mother is also very hard. She writes a blog for me to keep my home clean, so that I can play on the floor and do manual work at any time. Sometimes when my handwriting is not good, you look really fierce, and you almost tore my paper last time. Sometimes the teacher teaches you to write strokes and phonetic notation like that, but you just don't believe me and always argue with me loudly. Also, when you play the piano at night, you clearly know that the score is wrong, and you also loudly say that I didn't see it clearly. You should concentrate on playing the piano. How can I play when you talk so loudly? "
"Mom knows, mom will apologize to you first, and then you will supervise me. If I can't control my mood, you must remind me, ok? "
"I can say' the tiger is coming', ok? O(∩_∩)O Haha ~ "
"Ha ha, you smelly boy, well, that's settled. It's not very elegant, but try it first. I must be careful not to let you talk about me. "
"Long live mom, yeah ~ ~ ~"
"Son, let's talk about you just now that a few questions. In learning, my mother is also ambiguous and knows nothing. I need to discuss it with you. For example, my mother is not sure about the pinyin and strokes of words. I will pay attention to it in the future, and I will strengthen my study and make progress with everyone. The strokes of Wei taught by the teacher last time are different from those in the talent class. My mother believes that you are not listening correctly in class and believes in the "talent class". My mother has always wanted to apologize for this. Later you asked Mr. Zhao. It turns out that the' gifted course' is wrong. Forgive your mother. I hope you can stick to your point of view in the future, listen carefully in class and find problems, ok? "
"I see, for the sake of the stroke order of the word" Wei ",I went to ask Mr. Zhao. When there are mistakes in the book, the phonetic notation, the small champion and the big dictionary of the last' man' are all wrong. "