First, we can look for children's wives among relatives and friends. Because as my relatives and friends, I am familiar with their personalities and qualities. And in case of any contradiction, the two sides can also communicate directly.
Second, we can find parenting through some intermediary platforms. However, the key point to remind everyone here is to find institutions with good local reputation and long service life. Don't be greedy for cheap, find those unqualified black intermediaries. Because once there is a dispute in the future, you will pay a lot of time and money, resulting in a situation where the loss outweighs the gain.
In fact, the profession of raising children has long existed, but with the acceleration of social rhythm, the pressure has increased. Many young people choose to work in first-tier cities, and they get married and have children, and then get into work quickly. Many people choose to take their children's grandparents or grandparents to the city to look after their children. Young people who do not have these conditions can only choose to raise a sister-in-law, which is also the reason why the sister-in-law has become popular in recent years.
A good parenting sister-in-law must first have love for children. Because the family that employs a child-rearing sister-in-law must be a family where parents cannot accompany their children for a long time. Therefore, the choice of parenting sister-in-law must have enough patience and love.
A friend around me didn't have time to take care of the children, so she found a foster sister through an intermediary. At first, my friend thought that the elder sister-in-law had good manners and was particularly patient with her children, so she signed the contract directly. In the later days, he found that the child was estranged from the elder sister-in-law. In order to get the truth, he secretly installed a camera in the living room. Yes, the boss recorded the scene of the mother-in-law beating and scolding the children. For this reason, my friend was very angry and directly chose to go to the intermediary to make a scene. However, the harm caused by the elder sister-in-law to the children is irreversible.
Therefore, we must keep our eyes open when we choose to have children.