1. On the day before the wedding, the bride's family usually sends the dowry to the man's family. At this time, the man's elders will give each of them a red envelope as a reward. It should also be noted that the red envelope for the "dowry" boy is bigger.
On the wedding day, when the wedding team arrives at the woman's house, the woman's house should give red envelopes to all the people who attended the wedding except the groom to show their welcome and sympathy.
When the bride arrives at the man's house, she should take out some coins wrapped in small "red envelopes" prepared in advance from the ground and hide in the new house while everyone is looting.
Before the wedding reception, when the bride gives the guests a "tea gift", the guests should put the "red envelope" prepared in advance into the bowl to show their congratulations to the bride and groom.
When picking up the bride, some young people like to play tricks on the groom. At this time, the man will give the bridesmaid a "red envelope" to show his gratitude and condolences.
6. The "red envelope" given at the wedding, regardless of the amount, should generally be an even number, and avoid giving an odd number. Generally, 666 or 888 is the best.
In some rural areas, it is also popular for men to give "red envelopes" to those who come to help at the end of the wedding to thank them for their help.
8. In some rural areas, on the second day of marriage, when the bride is accompanied by her brother and sister-in-law, each family will give her a "red envelope".
Red envelope etiquette on wedding day
Red envelopes to block the bride's house: generally, a red envelope has ten dollars, which means perfection;
Red envelopes enter the bride's house: generally ten dollars, representing perfection;
Redeem red envelopes: some are 6666.66 yuan, some are 8888.88 or 9999.99. In short, it is a lucky number. It is safe and convenient to give a deposit slip when giving it on site. The meaning of 1000 1 is one in a million;
On the wedding day, the groom went out: the mother-in-law wanted to give 666.66 yuan, hoping to pick up the bride smoothly;
The groom picks up the bride, and when the bride goes out, the bride's family also gives her 666 yuan and 666 cents in order to live a smooth and prosperous life;
The money of the best man and bridesmaid: it varies from person to person, generally ranging from 100-200, but there are also more than 200, because it is an even number;
If you find your own car, don't forget to give drivers, photographers and cameramen red envelopes, sugar and cigarettes.
Pay attention to wedding red envelopes
1. Do the chefs, foremen and waiters at the wedding banquet need to give red envelopes?
Generally, newlyweds will send some red envelopes or cigarettes to the chef one or two days before the wedding reception. If a red envelope is around 400 yuan, if it's cigarettes, it's two brands of cigarettes, some are two Chinese, and a pack of wedding candy. Some people give it to the foreman. It depends on personal circumstances. Give 400 yuan if you have money. It doesn't matter if it's less. You have to give cigarettes and candy. Some newcomers will give candy and cigarettes to the vegetable waiter. Of course, this doesn't need a red envelope. Give small if you want, depending on the mood and economy of new people. Some newlyweds will say, the money for the banquet is already very expensive, so why give these people red envelopes? It also depends on the situation. But in order to let the guests eat well and be afraid of some bad situations, most people will give the chef red envelopes. Most of the foreman and waiters give candy and cigarettes, and a few give red envelopes.
2. Should the wedding car driver give a red envelope? If so, how much?
There are probably two kinds of wedding car drivers. The first one is a rented wedding car. Because the money for renting a car has been paid, there is no need to give too many red envelopes. Generally, 18+ candy+cigarettes, 18 means good luck, that's what it means. The second is that the wedding car is borrowed from friends. If the wedding car is the main wedding car, the red envelopes for friends are bigger, ranging from several hundred dollars. Other wedding cars generally give 200 yuan.
3. Should the staff of donkey kong and other wedding companies be seated?
Generally speaking, the wedding company will stipulate that the staff can't eat the banquet of the newlyweds, and they will solve it themselves. Of course, if there are enough seats at the wedding, the newlyweds can also invite them to the table. On the wedding day, the photographer, makeup artist and master of ceremonies should reserve places for them. Photographers and makeup attendants follow the newcomers all day. It's very hard. We have to leave places for them, as well as the position of emcee.
4. When will the red envelope of the best man and bridesmaid be given?
The bridesmaid's red envelope can be given after the toast, because at this time, the bridesmaid's duties have almost been completed, and the red envelope can be given! Some people, because they are very busy on the wedding day, will ask the best man and maid of honor to thank them after marriage, and red envelopes will also be given at this time. Some people will give red envelopes according to the performance of the best man and bridesmaid.
5. Who else will give out red envelopes on the wedding day?
On the wedding day, because of the different customs in different places, it is different to give red envelopes to whom. The following are some examples for reference only. After all, the situation is different everywhere.
1. The red envelopes for making beds and hanging curtains in new houses must be even.
There are several red envelopes that open the door.
3. Boys who press the bed should give at least one hundred red envelopes.
If there is a band, everyone should give a red envelope.
Two important younger generations, such as sister-in-law's brother-in-law and sister-in-law, all changed money.
6. Your parents give each other a lot of change, such as 1000 1 and 9999.
7, table pressing ceremony, red envelopes on the day of engagement.
8, sister table gift, sister table red envelope on the wedding day. The man should prepare more red envelopes for the best man or bridesmaid. When the relatives and friends of the man or woman have objections, they should immediately take out the red envelope and give it to the other party, saying, "The customs and habits in this respect are not clear. Please forgive me if I am disrespectful. "