What is the custom of marriage in Northeast China?
Before getting married in the northeast, we must choose a good date, set a "opposite day" on the wedding day and a "reception day" for the man to receive guests at the woman's house. This day is generally three or four days earlier than Sunday, and the bride and groom need to wear dresses to receive relatives and friends at home.
It's best to go at eight or nine in the morning on the wedding day, which means getting rich and lasting. The groom must have an odd number of people to pick up the bride, but the number of people on the way to pick up the bride must be even.
Seeing the bride off requires the bride's younger brother and father to accompany her, but the mother can't go to see her off. Both the daughter and the mother have to cry and marry, which symbolizes "throwing golden beans" and means that the woman's family will be rich from now on.
Huimen in the northeast, I won't go back until the second day of marriage, three days later. They will return to the man's home before sunset. If the bride's home is far away, she won't go back until nine days after marriage.