It doesn't matter if you arrive the next day, mainly on the third day ~ and on the third day, the couple went to the woman's house to "return home" and visit their elders, commonly known as the "Three Dynasties" etiquette and male worship. The couple must return to their husband's house on the same day and must not spend the night at their mother's house.

In the evening, the bride must say good night to her elders and go to her mother-in-law's room to sit for the night. The bride can only go back to her room to rest after her mother-in-law lets her go.

In the "Three Dynasties", the bride had to visit her husband's family and her mother's family. At this time, you can call your family (commonly known as opening a golden mouth) and do housework. When you go to the kitchen, you must first add firewood to make a fire, so that it can be full of fire; When cutting and sewing, pants and socks should be made first. The homonym of "pants", "socks" and "hair" is for good luck. There is a saying that "if you want to be rich, make pants first;" If you want to send it, make socks first.

The concept and customs of marriage in Shaoxing have also changed. During the Republic of China, the enlightened gentry in cities advocated simplifying etiquette and getting married in a civilized way, but the civilians in cities and rural areas remained the same. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, marriage customs tend to be civilized and simple. The wedding time is mostly on Labor Day, National Day, New Year's Day or Spring Festival, and there are also group weddings or tourist weddings.