As a result, the parents of the bride and groom were ogled, men and women were cross-dressed, dressed in ancient costumes, the wife was not a lady, and the "xianggong" was not a "xianggong". Men, women and children were like a pair of clowns in the play, and they wanted to toast on various wine tables, which made the guests burst into laughter and became big clowns at the wedding! ! At present, these phenomena are getting worse and worse, which have aroused people's discussion and accusation, and deserve social reflection and correction. Just two days ago, I was invited to attend the wedding of a friend's child. This friend is the person in charge of a government department. His usual serious and friendly image has been changed into a "graceful lady" by helpless dressing: wearing a wavy shawl hair cover, a milky white sweater with a red skirt, wearing high heels, carrying a lady's bag, and most importantly, wearing a bra, with two exaggerated breasts. Look at a friend's lover, but she dresses up as a son. The couple stood at the entrance of the hotel lobby and greeted the guests with a smile. When I first came, I was shocked. I didn't recognize it, which caused people to laugh. Turning around, I saw a pair of well-dressed, handsome and beaming bride and groom. At such a moment, my heart twitched, which was especially unpleasant and boring. Why? Why is this happening? Why should parents be teased at their children's wedding? Children of marriageable age are mostly young people born after 1980s, aged 234, and their parents are mostly middle-aged people aged 47 or 48. This generation of children are all only children. Their rich living conditions and superior family status caused the phenomenon of "little emperors" in social appellation at that time, and they are also the "post-80 s" generation in today's society. Such a group of parents is a generation of brothers and sisters, with seven or eight more and three or four less. The hard life of teenagers and the benefits of reform and opening up in adulthood are the most prominent among them, especially the life and life imprint left by their parents' hardships, which makes them no longer willing to let their descendants bear too much hardships and emotional pain. Perhaps it is for this reason that many strange phenomena have appeared, including the scene of parents at the children's wedding mentioned above. The emergence of problems is not necessarily caused by children. The key problem is that children are indifferent or even indifferent in the face of such a phenomenon. This situation is probably more important and serious than the problem itself. In the traditional wedding custom, there is the habit of getting married, which probably means that when children grow up and get married, parents will have peace of mind, and clan blood can increase the strength of new life. Happy family celebrations of parents, joking with young couples, and even a little injustice on their wedding night will all adopt this method, and by the way, carry out necessary reproductive knowledge and sexual knowledge education to tell young people that they will be adults from now on. It is nothing more than conveying such a meaning, such a message. However, what kind of information is being conveyed to children by such a noisy method? What kind of information will children receive from social forms? At the wedding, when people spoof their parents, the children's calm and indifferent performance seems to have vaguely told us something! Problems must be caused by parents or their friends or people of the same age as their parents. There is absolutely no doubt about this judgment. The key is, what kind of feelings does this express? When children grow up and get married, parents should be happy, friends should be happy for them, and congratulations and blessings should be given! But is this a blessing? This should be a spoof! Although we are all children, although our children's marriage will add some psychological expectation and pressure to us, although we sing "Go home often", that's it. We don't have to destroy ourselves and our friends in this ridiculous way, do we? Besides, what's the point? There is a joke today, called: boys are happy for a while, girls are happy for a generation! It is nothing more than saying that the daughter is with her parents and boys. When she married her daughter-in-law, she forgot her mother. In my opinion, in this case, it is necessary to analyze it in two, but it is not necessarily. To say the least, even if contemporary boys are so worthless, there is no need to spoof! Parents should be respected and filial by their children, sincerely congratulated by friends, fairly evaluated by society, and enjoy warm feelings and the same honor as heroes at their children's weddings. Does anyone disagree with this view? !