1. The two sides agreed on the time and place of the meeting in advance. In order to respect the woman, it is best to stay at her house. If the woman doesn't agree, then follow her wishes.
The man should prepare some gifts in advance. In the north, cigarettes, wine, sugar and tea are generally four-color gifts (cloth may be used instead of cigarettes in some places). If it is a blind date in different places, you can bring some special products.
3. It may be necessary to finalize the wedding date on the day of blind date (this is the main purpose of blind date in some places), and only the elders of both sides will decide after consulting the opinions of both sides. In addition, we can also determine the specific number of women attending the wedding and the specific requirements for the wedding, which can be agreed according to local customs.
It should be reminded that it is best for the man to arrive at the woman's house before noon, which is a respect for the woman, and the existence of the woman's uncle cannot be ignored in the process of negotiation and banquet. This is the custom in the north-the mother's uncle is big.