Marriage is a happy event, and the amount of gift money should be auspicious, usually even. The numbers 2, 5, 6 and 8 are the most popular, which just means "yes-man" and "Liu Liu Dashun". The amount depends on the distance between the giver and the couple. Generally, 200 yuan is the bottom line, and some people with distant relationships or low incomes can also send 100 yuan; No matter how good the relationship is, the amount will be increased appropriately. For those who are particularly close, the gift can be as high as 1000 yuan. If the newlyweds have given themselves gifts in the past, the number of gifts returned is usually not less than the number of gifts received.
Some people don't pay attention to form and give money directly to newcomers, but they give too much and are suspected of showing off. If they give too little, they will hide, hoping no one will see them. So putting the gift money in the red envelope will not have these problems. Meet new people, give bright red envelopes, and be generous and decent. However, don't forget to write some greetings and the name of the giver on the back of the red envelope in case the couple can't remember who sent it after they are busy.
2. How much is the wedding gift?
The amount of gift money should be considered comprehensively, because the amount of wedding gift money is based on your salary and also related to the relationship with the couple. But there are many exquisite wedding gifts. Let's take a look at the traditional wedding gifts in China.
Wedding Gifts The cash given to the newlyweds by the people attending the wedding is also called "lucky money". Marriage is a happy event, and the amount of gift money should be auspicious, usually even. The numbers 2, 5, 6 and 8 are the most popular, which just means "yes-man" and "Liu Liu Dashun".
From the symbol of expressing the friendship between colleagues and friends to the standard of measuring the quality of interpersonal relationship, the amount of gift money is directly related to the maintenance and development of feelings in the future. Pay attention to wedding gifts:
A survey shows that respondents spend about 10%-20% of their monthly salary on a wedding gift, and the price has increased in recent two years. 60% of the respondents under the age of 30 said they were at a loss, especially around the wedding peak on May 1 and 11. 60% of the young respondents spent more than 80% on gifts in that month, and 40% of the respondents spent all their income on gifts in that month.
Some people can't help but ask, what is the current gift price? Based on the price of white-collar workers, the following points are summarized for your reference.
First of all, we must weigh the thickness of red envelopes: generally speaking, how much to send depends on the relationship with newcomers. There is no need to be a fat man, and there is no need to break the rules in etiquette, otherwise the relationship may decline sharply or even break down. Of course, in principle, gifts should be based on one's ability.
How much is the gift?
My friend gave me a gift plan, and after weighing it, I can basically follow this price.
The lowest-have been to the arithmetic type: one person /200 yuan, two people /500 yuan, one family /800 yuan.
Standard-Reciprocity: one person /500 yuan, two people /800 yuan, one family/1000 yuan.
In terms of segmentation:
1. Ordinary colleagues and friends: 200 yuan -300 yuan is moderate. If the relationship is good, then add more. Colleagues can also piece together a lucky number and wrap a "big" red envelope.
2. Open-backed pants friends and girlfriends: no less than 600 yuan. Whether the number will rise again depends on your wallet.
3. Family relatives: 1000 yuan or more. The relationship is particularly close, and the elders in the family have a good friendship or even tens of thousands. This is not a certain thing.
Reminder: As the old saying goes, courtesy is reciprocated. If someone else has come to your wedding reception before, the amount of the gift money is usually not less than the amount of the gift money received.
Pay attention to the gift:
1. Try to please the lottery players, preferably in pairs, but skip the number 4. Numbers 2, 5, 6 and 8 are the most popular. Of course, something like 666 or 888 is better.
2. Attendance with family members is usually no less than that in 600 yuan. My friend has a very real saying: "It's really embarrassing to sit down without 1000 yuan." The gift money has really gone up, and the salary has not gone up so fast.
Bridesmaids and groomsmen generally don't need gift money. A good sister or a good buddy can just buy a wedding present. Generally speaking, China's gift culture is a university question, and everyone can't avoid human relations, so we can learn more about gifts, hoping to play a reference role.