First of all, you should make it clear whether you like his money or his people. In this case, you should persuade the landlord to give up this relationship as soon as possible, because it will not only hurt and torture himself, but also hurt the two families who love him to give up. You don't have to get love, and you are not aboveboard together. You can only accept it silently as a third party. Aren't you tired? Other people's eyes will be on you. Isn't it chilling for the family to know? It's not too late to let go. If it's too late, I can't let go.