First of all, who carried the bride out?
1, uncle of the bride
When most urban brides go out, my uncle basically carries the bride on his back. This choice is the biggest. For women, my uncle is still very important and worthy of respect. It is a kind of luck and blessing to go out with my uncle on my back. Of course, if my uncle is not in good health, or his physical strength is not suitable, forget it, don't force it.
2. The bride's brother or younger brother
If my uncle is inconvenient, I can usually ask the bride's brother or younger brother to help me carry the bride out. A slightly closer colleague shows that relatives and friends love and attach importance to the bride, indicating that the woman's family cherishes the bride very much and hopes that the man's family will treat the couple well.
3. Bride and groom
In some places, the groom goes out on his back and the bride can't step on the ground. It is said that after stepping on the ground, he is harder and more tired, so he is not so happy. The groom's back is better, and he is more loving and interesting when taking pictures.
In some places, there is no need to carry the bride. The groom came to pick up the bride and carried her to the car. Moreover, many new couples now live in the hotel where the wedding was held the night before, so there is no custom of carrying the bride.
Second, what are the taboos for carrying a bride?
1. The person who carries the bride is usually the bride's brother. If he doesn't, he is the younger brother. Carrying the bride will affect one's luck, so the couple must seal a red envelope. It is said that red envelopes can drive away bad luck.
There is no special requirement for this. Generally speaking, our first choice is the elder brother or younger brother of our peers, which will be better.
3. Actually, it can be a cousin or a cousin. You don't have to have a surname. As long as it is male, it is actually possible.
If you don't have a brother, you can only consider your uncle, but Tianya doesn't recommend it very much, because after all, your uncle is old and something will happen.
If my family is not very opposed, I can actually consider my friends without men, and the problem is not very big.
In some places, there are taboos in the process of holding the bride, such as not letting people around you say anything, and the bride who is held can't talk. It should be noted that even if the posture of holding the bride is appropriate, you can't say a few words. After all, it was only a short time, and patience passed. Never create taboos for your own comfort, which is very unfavorable in the eyes of your parents' generation.