Should parents give a change fee together or separately?
A: Both can, but the two companies must negotiate in advance. For example, parents can package 1000 1 yuan together; Can also be divided into two, a package of 5000 yuan, a package of 500 1 yuan.
When is the change fee usually paid?
A: According to different local customs, newcomers can usually be given change fees under the following three circumstances:
1, when engaged
2. After obtaining the license,
3. On the wedding day
Tips: In Chenzhou, local people basically choose to give it to the couple on their wedding day ~
Q: How to pay the change fee on the wedding day?
A: There are two links that can be changed on the wedding day.
1, when receiving relatives and offering tea; Usually, in the process of serving tea at home, the change fee is given to the parents. Mother-in-law and father-in-law can give the groom a prepared red envelope when he goes to the bride's house to pick up tea, and the groom will change his name to his parents at this time. Then, when the bride is brought back to her in-laws to offer tea, the bride offers tea to her in-laws. After her parents-in-law gave her a red envelope, the bride changed her name to her parents.
2. Wedding tea ceremony; You can put the tea offering link into the wedding process, invite both parents to the wedding stage, then the bride and groom offer tea to both parents respectively, and then both parents exchange the red envelopes for the son-in-law and daughter-in-law
Tips: At present, most newcomers will choose to hold a tea exchange ceremony at home when picking up relatives. If they choose to cook at home, they must discuss with their parents in advance and prepare tea cups at home.
Q: How much is the change fee?
A: There is no fixed amount of marriage change fee. The two families can negotiate. Give hundreds or even more as a symbolic living fund for newlyweds. It should be noted that if you give more and give less, the gap between the two companies should not be too big, otherwise conflicts will easily arise.
666 yuan, 6666 yuan, which means 666 Dashun.
888 yuan, 8888 yuan, which means rich and expensive.
999 yuan, 9,999 yuan, meaning forever.
1000 yuan, 10000 yuan, meaning heart and soul.
100 1 yuan, 100 1 yuan, which means one in a million.
1007 yuan, 10007 yuan, which means one wife in a million.
1002 yuan, 10002 yuan, indicating that Wan Li is picky.
Generally speaking, if the man's parents prepare 1000 1 for his daughter-in-law, the woman's parents can return the son-in-law 9999; Or the man's parents give it to his daughter-in-law 10007, and the woman's parents can return it to her son-in-law 10002. The amount is similar, which can also be a good sign.