He wants to get married, or he wants to attend someone else's wedding. This is actually a concern for each other. However, this kind of care and concern often leads to misunderstanding of the questioner because of the sensitivity of the questioned object or other reasons. Actually, you don't have to. Be calm about your marriage, be calm about your lover, and don't feel that others are asking for something from you or have other bad meanings. Relax, just tell him or simply say "I don't know, I haven't decided yet, I'll let you know then" or something like that. Is it okay?