The child grew up and ushered in the first birthday of 10. Mom and Dad bought her a present, and a birthday cake filled with 10 candles was slowly pushed to the child. At this moment, for the children who are making a wish, the sense of ceremony is the concern and miss of their parents.
As far as life is concerned, it needs a sense of ceremony too much. It makes ordinary days shine and gives ordinary things value. I have a private letter from a consultant, who told me that she especially envied the female colleagues in the company. The husband of this female colleague always gives her some surprises from time to time. For example, one night when she came home, she found the room was dark but she couldn't turn on the light. Her husband suddenly appeared in a suit, tie and swallow-tailed bow tie as in TV series, preparing candlelight western food. Like what goblets, red wine, steak, candles and background music. Her colleague's husband also played a role in TV series, holding his colleague's hand to the table and personally moving the stool to let his colleague sit down. Her colleagues were so excited that they almost cried. I took a lot of photos that night and sent them to my circle of friends. The next day, when she recovered, her colleague asked her husband how much he spent. Her husband said with a smile, these things are available in big supermarkets downstairs, around 200 yuan. Her colleagues laughed and cried, but they were still very happy.
I can fully feel the excitement and envy of the counselor when he said this, and at the same time I feel distressed that my husband doesn't understand the interests of husband and wife. He who can lead an ordinary life like a poem is superior. But it is not difficult to make ordinary life wonderful. Put more sense of ceremony into your life, and those who can treat you with a sense of ceremony are all people who love you. This can make us remember the dull and precious past in life and give us spiritual prosperity. For today's new youth, the sense of ceremony is completely equivalent to "live well and enjoy life seriously." Marriage, such an important moment in life, should not be bound by the triviality of life. Stars get married and hold a grand wedding on TV. Celebrities gather around the world for holidays, attracting the attention and envy of people all over the world. We can't be as grand as a star, but we can have our own style and way. For many people, getting married is a lifetime thing. If you just get a marriage certificate, it's not much different from falling in love before. After a wedding, you will obviously feel the psychological changes. Now she has become the lover to be guarded for the rest of her life, and he has become the reliance for the long years to come. At this moment, I began to understand what the wedding meant to me. I hope that the days with you are dull but full of our own happiness. The sense of ritual makes our quiet life hot at a certain moment, and paints a picture of life with color. In fact, behind every sense of ceremony, I tell the meaning of my love for you.