Sanjin is a tradition since ancient times. In ancient times, men would specially prepare a bride price for their wives. They attach great importance to these things. Everyone will watch the bride price. In the eyes of others, the richness of the bride price is the degree to which men attach importance to women. Gold was very precious in ancient times. Generally speaking, there is gold in the bride price. Modern marriage is actually the same. Houses and cars are very expensive "bride price". Sanjin is not that expensive. When getting married, the man will consciously prepare three gold medals, one is to follow the tradition, the other is the reason of the woman's parents, and the bride price and three gold medals are to prevent the man from looking down on the woman.
The engagement ring and Sanjin are wedding jewelry that the man bought for the woman before the formal marriage, but they are used in different places. Nowadays, many young people get married and pursue fashionable wedding ceremonies. They are not very interested in gold with a little earthy color. But under the traditional concept, three gold must be given. We often say "three golds" mainly include gold rings, gold earrings and gold necklaces, while engagement rings are equivalent to marriage proposal rings.
Whether buying a diamond ring or a gold ring, its basic function is to wear it. Because of the style and color, diamond rings are relatively more versatile and more in line with modern aesthetics. Many gold jewelry is not suitable for daily wear, and young girls may look old-fashioned in gold jewelry. From an aesthetic point of view, it would be more appropriate to buy a diamond ring for engagement. The ring represents the man's commitment to the woman, and the implication of the three gold represents wishing the two newlyweds happiness in the future. Generally speaking, three gold coins do not include wedding rings. But we don't have to stick to these traditional wedding customs. As long as parents have no opinions, newcomers can prepare according to their own preferences.