2, family relations sometimes get along with friends, sometimes endure it, let nature take its course, let the other side see your generosity, your tolerance, most people will reciprocate. If you do meet unreasonable in-laws, then once there is a war, you will be confident, and your husband will favor you. After all, you are right.
Of course, there is a view in this society, that is, traditional thinking. The so-called man does everything, and the woman just gives the dowry. If you infer from this, you don't seem to have an advantage, but you are definitely not losing money. For example, your own house and car can't bear the man's name. Keep the original documents and bills that prove the property before marriage. This is yours, too. The other party can't take it away.
Finally, if your man is not a man who doesn't know filial piety, but a rational man, I don't think you need to care so much, as long as you two are happy. But I want to remind you that if your parents-in-law are really difficult to get along with and your husband is an only child, there will inevitably be contradictions in your long-term life. Personally, I suggest that you must reach an agreement with your husband on some basic principles before marriage. If your husband disagrees, I don't think he is a rational person to deal with family problems.
In short, feelings and family are a wonderful contradiction, depending on how you handle it.