On the afternoon of the 20th, a video of a man beating an old man went viral on the Internet. In the video, a middle-aged man pressed an old man on an electric car and hit his head hard with his hand. The old man almost fell off the car with a child beside him. Netizens said that the incident happened in a certain district of Suining, and the old man who was beaten was the man's mother.

In the 6-second video, a middle-aged man wearing sunglasses fanned the old man's face with his hand, and when the old man was beaten, he pulled off the electric car key with his hand. The man once again pressed the old man on the back seat of the electric car and patted the old man's head with his hand. The man's behavior of beating the old man quickly attracted a buzz on the Internet. Many netizens were even more angry when they learned that the beating man was actually the son of the old man, and condemned it as? Reverse? .

The man in the video is Li Ming, and the old man who was beaten is his 78-year-old mother.

2 1 day, in some? Big v? There was a brief response from Li Ming on Weibo, but it didn't calm the anger of netizens. This news spread rapidly on many news and social platforms on the Internet and became a hot spot in the whole network. However, almost all the posts are condemning Li Ming.

A dutiful son/daughter

Neighbors don't understand: he is a good man and has taken care of his mother for many years.

2 1 in the afternoon, Huaxi Daily reporter came to the incident community, and Li Ming was not at home at that time. But in the eyes of neighbors and security guards, the relationship between Li Minghe's mothers has a completely different view.

Although there are online videos, the community security guard Ran Tijun still said something about Li Ming hitting his mother. Can't believe it? . He said:? Lao Li is very kind to his mother. He rides an electric car to take the elderly out to play every day, without interruption in the morning and afternoon. ?

Among the neighbors, Li Ming usually takes good care of his mother. He used to be a security guard in the community. His wife works in a hospital and his son works outside. Li Ming once broke his leg while helping an owner move things. After living in the hospital for several months, he quit his job, and the main thing every day is to take care of the elderly.

Many people in the community know that Li Ming's mother has Alzheimer's disease. After his mother lost it several times, Li Ming had to look everywhere. ? Once the old man went to England, Lao Li found a community to help him find his whereabouts. ? Security guard Su Dakuan said that this is the longest time for the elderly to be lost. Li Ming ran to a small town in England, and then came back with his mother.

Hu Jun, the owner of the commissary in Building 4, sees Li Ming take his mother out to play by bike every day. He said:? Lao Li drives the old man out for a walk during the day and pushes him out for a walk after dinner. ? In fact, Hu Jun also saw the video of Li Ming beating his mother that day, but in Hu Jun's eyes, Li Ming was out of control. ? Lao Li is very careful with his mother at ordinary times. He held her when she got on and off the bus. I have never seen him fight. He must have lost his temper that day to do such a thing. ?

Voice of the family

Sister said: My brother has been taking care of his mother for six years, and his psychological pressure is too great.

Speaking of brothers and mothers, Li Ming's sister Li Wei (a pseudonym) said: Actually, it's not easy to be a brother. He is the eldest son and his mother has been taken care of by him for so many years. ?

My mother suffered from Alzheimer's disease six years ago, when my father was still alive, and old people didn't want to live with their children. Li Ming is the eldest brother, so the two old people have lunch and dinner at Li Ming's house every day. The two old people didn't go home by themselves until evening.

When his father died last year, Li Wei had to help in the school cafeteria during the day, so he couldn't spare time to take care of his mother. Li Minghe and Li Wei also have a younger brother. After the divorce, his family was difficult and he couldn't take care of the elderly. However, my mother's illness is very serious, and someone must accompany me for a long time. So Li Ming takes his mother to his house early every morning and takes her out for a walk. After dinner, she asked her sister Li Wei to take her away.

Li Wei gave her mother to her brother to take care of, and she was always at ease. She said that when my brother stewed pork knuckle ribs for his mother, he would first remove all the bones inside and then put them in his mother's bowl. Afraid of mom getting stuck in the bone. ? Li Ming usually rides his bike to meet his mother at the gate of Li Wei at 6 o'clock every morning. After breakfast, he took his mother out for a walk. In Renlichang, Yongxing Town, Wetland Park, he took his mother to many places. ?

On the 20th, Li Wei learned that his brother had beaten his mother. It was Li Ming who took the initiative. That night, she went to her brother's house and walked with her mother. ? My sister-in-law, who was still at work on the way, called and scolded my brother. ? Li Wei said that my brother actually regretted it, saying that he didn't know why he was suddenly upset, lost control of his emotions and hit his mother, making such an unfilial thing. ? That night, he also complained that his mother would have epilepsy when she was sick and could not be appeased. In fact, he has been taking care of her for so long, and his psychological pressure is too great. ?

Dialogue party

regret

? That day, I suddenly lost control?

2 1 that night, the reporter contacted Li Ming who had just sent his mother home. He has seen the video on the Internet. About that day, he said that he was not abusing his mother, but he didn't control his emotions at that time and he always regretted it.

? Suining is very hot on the 20th. I don't know why I am so upset. ? Li Ming said that when the incident happened, he had to rush to send his grandson to school. He wanted his grandson to sit in the front and his mother to sit in the back. However, after he helped his mother into the car, she turned over from the other side of the electric car. He carried her to the car again, but she kept moving in the car.

Seeing that his grandson was going to be late, Li Ming lost control and slapped the old man with his hand. Just then, my mother came forward and took out the car keys. Angry Li Ming pushed the old man directly into the back seat and slapped his mother on the head.

? I must have been unfilial to do that, but I just suddenly lost control. ? Li Ming said that he didn't realize his problem until he calmed down. For netizens to condemn him? Abuse of mother? He said that in fact, he will not leave his mother and will always take good care of her.

dream

? I've been expecting mom to get better, okay?

Speaking of getting along with his mother, Li Ming talked about his childhood. Their family used to live in a village on the edge of the city, and they had to take a ferry every time they went to town. Nearby neighbors, in order to earn more money, all go to the city to do business and find jobs. However, there are three brothers and sisters in their family. In order to take care of all of them, their parents have always stayed in the village and brought them up with one hand and one foot.

? I'm the boss of the family. In the past few years when my mother was ill, I was afraid that something would happen to her, and I always hoped that she would get better. ? Li Ming said that in recent years, with the mother's illness getting worse, it is increasingly inseparable from the care of children. Several brothers and sisters in the family have sent the old man to the hospital for treatment. The doctor asked them to take the old man out to familiarize themselves with the surrounding environment. On the one hand, it is conducive to improving the mood of the elderly. On the other hand, it can also let the elderly remember the surrounding environment and try to avoid getting lost.

Li Ming said that he was most afraid that his mother would get lost one day, so he tried to show her around so that she could remember the way home.

At the end of the interview, Li Ming said that he had taken care of his mother in this way all these years and wanted to set an example for his children. I didn't expect that this time I lost control of my emotions and made something I regretted. ?

state of play

Li Ming was administratively detained for beating others 15 and fined.

On the morning of June 2, 2065438+KLOC-0, Hedong New District Branch of Suining Public Security Bureau found a video of Li Ming beating his mother on the Internet and immediately intervened in the investigation.

Upon investigation, on the afternoon of June 6th, 19, when Li Ming was going to take her mother and son out on the street downstairs in the residential area, Li Ming carried her mother into the back seat of the electric car and beat her, which violated the Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) on Public Security Administration Punishment. Li Ming was sentenced to administrative detention by the public security organ for beating others 15 and fined 500 yuan.

2 1 that night, Guo Yongguang, the community secretary of Li Ming's community, told the reporter that Li Ming had been administratively detained by the public security organs according to law. The mother with Alzheimer's disease will be taken care of by her daughter Li Wei, and the community will try its best to help.

After learning about this incident, the local community also went to Li Ming's house to learn about the situation, and arranged for community workers to focus on Li Ming's mother's situation in the future and be willing to help Li Ming's mother as much as possible. During Li Ming's detention, the community will seek volunteers to help take care of Li Ming's mother.

Guo Yongguang said that Li Ming lost control this time and hit his mother. It is understood that he used to take care of his mother. Li Ming will continue to take care of his mother's life after his detention expires.

Experts say

Psychologist: Long-term backlog leads to emotional outburst.

In response to Li Ming's behavior, Kunyang, director of the Psychosomatic Department of the Third People's Hospital of Mianyang City and a psychologist, told the reporter that due to the long-term illness of the elderly, the long-term backlog is likely to lead to emotional out-of-control of caregivers, which is likely to lead to overreaction. ? It can't be defined as abuse just because of a beating, it depends on long-term performance. ?

There is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed for a long time, which can actually be said to be a psychological phenomenon. Taking care of the children of seriously ill elderly people for a long time will also lead to anxiety and hopelessness because the patient's condition has not improved for a long time. At this time, psychological pressure will accumulate for a long time, and it is possible to do something drastic.

Therefore, children who take care of seriously ill elderly people for a long time must learn to understand themselves, such as sweating, loud voice and sudden personality change. At this time, we must make some self-physiological adjustments, slow down and do some exercise to divert our attention. At the same time, talk to your family and find ways to release stress.

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