1, discuss matters related to marriage.

When engaged, the woman's parents must stand by her daughter and strive for certain rights and obligations for her daughter. Moreover, when discussing matters related to marriage, both parties should emphasize that the wedding date and bonus cannot be changed at will.

2. Advice for my daughter

When engaged, the woman's parents should be rational, don't praise the children, and don't belittle the man. At the same time, warn your daughter in front of your in-laws, now that you want to form a new family by yourself, then this is your home, and your in-laws are your parents, so you should respect them, love them and take care of them. Be careful and considerate of your husband, don't be impatient. This shows that the woman's family is considerate, decent and generous, and it can also make the in-laws relationship better.

3. Expectations for son-in-law.

When you are engaged, you should also tell your future son-in-law, that they will be a family in the future, working hard in one place, supporting each other, respecting each other, working together, respecting each other, caring for each other and living a good life. Life will inevitably encounter difficulties. Two people should work together to overcome it, and don't blame and doubt each other. It is a principle and the bottom line that two people discuss their abilities well, fight less, and don't start work no matter how noisy.