The following are temporary personal feelings, nonsense.

When going out to ride a bike in the morning, it is difficult to have some cool autumn wind on your face.

It suddenly dawned on me that those behaviors that broke up because of bride price before marriage may be only a little knowledge.

Psychology, or anywhere else, will mention the wedding ceremony, which is essential.

When I was young, there were many uncles at home. I heard and watched a lot of premarital ceremonies, and it will take months for both sides to walk back and forth.

Modern young people work and live in cities, and the transportation is more convenient. Even in rural areas, there are wedding companies with fairly good scale. A few curtains, a red carpet, a bunch of balloons and plastic bouquets can be arranged into a western-style wedding in the city. In this case, bride price and dowry are still topics that both sides cannot get rid of.

Zhihu, Weibo, Douban, Tik Tok, Aauto Quicker, video number and TV series all have many stories of breaking up because of bride price.

What is hidden behind the bride price is the pulling and running-in of the values, consumption and even outlook on life of two people or even two families, which can be vividly displayed in this process.

Who is willing to tolerate, whose emotions erupt, who is willing to compromise.

Today, I had a whim about the bride price. There are four kinds of bride price: 1, 2, 3, 3. 4 is a temporary fare increase.

These four kinds are still very general, and can only represent a part, not the majority. Let's talk about these first: this thing is like going to buy food. Previously, vegetables in Shang Chao were clearly marked and sold by weight, and then repackaged. How much is a box? This process is to read the box before buying it.

Clearly marked price+willing to buy = deal.

It is negotiable to buy food in the ordinary vegetable market. It is the same to discuss the bride price with both parties about the bargaining of buying food. Most people are willing to go to the vegetable market to feel fireworks, and more are enjoying the process of bargaining. Some families have to cut a knife even if they can get the amount proposed by the other party, otherwise they will think that I am killing fish.

Therefore, bride price+bargaining is an essential process of wedding ceremony, and it is a process in which two families understand and peel each other like onions. To sum up, it is whether the two sides are protocol.

Most young people don't have much money, except ambitious young people, they may be able to afford the wedding themselves, or part of it. Therefore, many families need their parents to pay for the wedding. At this time, some boys will be considerate of their families or dignity and will not bargain directly.

Therefore, the negotiation of bride price is the initial stage of the two families' running-in, and it is also the most prone to differences.

The boy understands his parents and thinks that you don't think of me and care about my parents.

Girls will think you won't think about it. I am also a treasure in the hands of my parents, and everyone's baby is a big meal. Eventually deadlocked, broke up in discord.

However, anyone who is willing to compromise will not break up before the wedding. At most, they will bury a mine. The better they cross, the better everything will be. When they are unhappy, these mines will be exposed and trampled carelessly.

Just like the fruit successfully negotiated at the entrance of the vegetable market, it is a pity to throw away the rotten part at home and it is difficult to swallow.

I wish all lovers will be well, and this is my sweetheart.