Marriage is a very sacred thing. Weddings also have many procedural ceremonies, and each ceremony has its own unique significance. Although the customs vary from place to place, the blessings and good wishes for the newcomers are the same. Making the bed is to look forward to the days and beauty of the newlyweds and have children early. So, how do you make the bed for a couple? Let's let Xiaobian of Hangzhou wedding photography give you advice. Making the bed is also called "tidying the room", "sweeping the bed", "making the bed" or "spreading the bill". Refers to a small ceremony arranged for the bridal chamber by a special person the day before the wedding. The wedding company reminds that auspicious words and jingles will be said in the process of making the bed, sweeping the bed and laying things, so as to wish the couple peace, success, happiness and good eloquence. The wedding company will remind the couple's family that the person who makes the bed is usually invited by the woman's family. It must be carried out by a healthy and long-lived mother-in-law with a happy family. So that they can pass on their good luck to the new couple. There is also a local custom of inviting venerable elders to make beds for newcomers. In ancient times, the meaning of marriage was more about carrying on the family line and prolonging life. The only important reminder is that widows or childless women should not touch bedding, bedding or even help the bride. The process of making a bed is slightly different according to local customs. In addition to sweeping the bed, laying Yuanyang pillows and dragon and phoenix quilts, the most familiar process should be "making the bed". "Laying an account" refers to laying dried fruits such as peanuts, longan, lotus seeds, chestnuts and Chinese dates on the wedding bed in order to obtain the life wish of "having your son early and having lotus seeds and peanuts (all children)". A few days before the wedding, a good-natured woman will put the new bed in an auspicious place that is beneficial to the couple, then spread a dragon and phoenix quilt and sprinkle red mung beans, lotus seeds, red dates, longan, walnuts and other happy fruits. Relatives are not allowed to sleep in a new bed after they are put in bed. Pregnant women, people with filial piety and women with moonlight are not allowed to enter. In addition, after going to bed, let the children jump out of bed and eat happy fruits, which was called "pressing the bed" in ancient times, meaning opening branches and spreading leaves. The most important ceremonies and etiquette before the wedding are [going to the cabinet] and [going to court]. [Shangge] refers to a period of time before marriage, when the bride-to-be is in a corner of her home, usually in a boudoir or attic, accompanied by a group of boudoir sisters and close friends, to temporarily get rid of her usual living habits and prepare herself psychologically so as to adapt to the unfamiliar living environment of her husband's family in the future. The bride will stay until the wedding day and leave the attic. Therefore, it is commonly known as "married women". Modern people also have similar activities. The bride invites her sisters and close friends to her daughter's house for the night before the wedding, and talks with each other all night to prepare for another stage of her life tomorrow. So what should be said in the greeting of making the bed for marriage when these steps are carried out? Different places in China have different ballads, but the meaning of blessing is similar. One shop is gold, the other is silver, and Kirin sends the children to the door. This is a very intuitive greeting, easy to understand and applicable everywhere. However, most of the greetings are about the early birth of your son, and they also mean to wish a happy life and family harmony. So what should we pay attention to when making the bed? What are the taboos? When paying more attention, widows or childless women are forbidden to make bedding, make beds, help the bride, and are not allowed to sit on the bride's bed. China people pay attention to celebration and perfection, so every wedding process is full of joy. In fact, the wedding bed greeting contains the crystallization of people's wisdom for thousands of years. People have written a song about their wishes to the new couple, which is still sung today. In particular, spreading peanuts, red dates and chestnuts on the bed or sewing them into the quilt, accompanied by ballads, can express the wishes for the couple to have children as soon as possible. Find someone to make the bed the day before marriage, and recite some auspicious words when making the bed: make the bed, make the bed, have a full house of children and grandchildren, your son, and a young girl; Fugui, always auspicious! Embroidered curtains hung high, colorful quilts covered the bed, Yuanyang pillows were placed on the bed, and silks and satins were filled with boxes. The spring rain is thick, raising new seedlings, and the mandarin ducks play in pairs; Free love is fruitful, and getting married is a good example. The bridal chamber is as red as fire, and the husband and wife love each other for thousands of years; Newly married couples farm well, and a year is not as good as decades. Make the bed this year and add the champion lang next year; Sprinkle a few red dates, and it will help to have a baby early. At the age of two, he entered the school, and at the age of four, he was able to be a chapter, literate and martial, and he was promoted to study abroad step by step. Press four bedside tables, and the adopted son is the county magistrate; Four beds cut, adopted son as prime minister. Man Tangchun made the bed and his adopted son became a general; The bed is full, and the adopted son is the president. The bed was full, and the adopted son became the president; Make the bed and adopt a son as president. When the sun is red, happy families are happy; After drinking the wedding banquet and wine, there is treasure every day. When the first bell rings, everyone eats candy; Head fall to the ground, bring tea to drink; Take a cigarette to eat as soon as you lift your head; Make the bed, make the bed, beaming. The above is what Bian Xiao has prepared for you.