I didn't know what my stepmother meant, so I said, "My daughter asked me to return the money to you. She is very grateful for your kindness. She was married, she will remember this, but she can't accept the money, and it's not easy for you. " I cried when I saw my stepmother talking. I don't know how to persuade her. I know my stepmother means well, too We must not misunderstand her. After all these years, she thinks of everything for us. My brother and I even misunderstood her. Sometimes we want to call our mother, but we just can't.
Stepmother is an elder. If you get along well, you are an elder. Repaying your stepmother is like repaying your biological parents.
How to get along well with stepmother? First of all, two people should maintain the necessary etiquette, such as smiling when they meet, and caring more about each other in life, such as helping her with food while eating. Don't treat her like a stranger, let alone an enemy. Treat her as a real member of the family and make friends with her. I think they will become close soon.
You should spend more time with her in your spare time and sometimes play jokes on each other. If you have something on your mind, you can tell her, such as some secrets between you and your friends, any problems you have encountered in your life or any problems you have encountered in your dealings with your friends, and listen to her opinions.
In this way, after a long time, she will think that you are sincere to her, and she will tell you something about you sincerely as a friend. In fact, women in their forties are the most suspicious, so they will associate with others very carefully. When she really feels that you are sincere to her, she will be sincere to you.
How should a stepmother get along with her children? Children have a certain degree of rejection of their stepmother, because they are afraid that their stepmother will not be as good to themselves as their biological mothers, and that their family (mainly their fathers) will pay less attention to and love them. People are not only relatives, but also only children. If you want to get along well with your child, please treat him/her as your own child. As we often say, respect is mutual, and so is love.
Think of him as his own child, praise him if he does well, and learn from him if he doesn't. I am a stepmother, too. I lived with him for less than half a month and asked him to convince me to call my mother. Don't think that it's not that children dare not say or scold. Actually, it will produce a sense of distance. As for how to educate, there must be a degree. After education, you should communicate with him and let him know that you are doing him good. The children will understand.
How to repay the stepmother As the saying goes, heart for heart, stepmother is very kind to you, that is, treat you as her own. Everyone says that maternal love is great, because she doesn't want to return it, because she loves you with her life. Even if you want to return it, I'm afraid it's endless! Sometimes, mom doesn't ask much of you. As long as you are healthy, safe and happy, it is the greatest reward for her. If you really want to be nice to her, spend more time with her, take her out to travel, eat her favorite food, and chat with her often, so that she can feel her position in your heart and your love for her.
People live a lifetime and don't want much. When they are old, they hope that their families will be reunited and happy. Doing more practical things is the best reward for her! With the improvement of living standards and culture, there are more and more examples that stepmother will treat her baby as her own. I don't think it's appropriate yet. Since a mother can take her as her own, can you also take her as your own mother, just like your parents? Personally, like relatives is the best reward!
I am lucky to be a mother and son in my life. The reward is kindness, kindness, more for less, how much is enough. It is the easiest to deteriorate the back and forth relationship. If you really feel good about yourself, then treat it as a mother, don't think about it, and doing what your son should do is the best reward.