Many Chaoshan people get married. If they are not local, it is often the man who holds the banquet and the woman who holds the banquet.
If they are from the same place, the woman's family is not very poor, and she often gets married. The gift depends on how much money you have.
As long as you can afford it, the more the better. On our side, some women's families are relatively rich, with a dowry of180 thousand, and some dowry is just a car. If you have money, you can't give less gifts than the dowry given by the woman.