As the old saying goes:? Different winds and customs in ten miles? There are many wedding customs in the countryside. Besides setting off firecrackers and fireworks, there is also a place where the bride needs to cross the brazier and eat jiaozi. In my hometown, when I was a child, I had to borrow tables, chairs and benches from the whole village for banquets. Only in this way can I meet the needs of the party.

During the villagers' wedding banquet, the scene was very lively. Many crowded people snatched a large pot of stewed vegetables in just one minute, and some even took pots and barrels to hold vegetables. Under such circumstances, different netizens express different views; Some netizens feel very lively, in line with the festive atmosphere of the wedding; Some netizens find it difficult to understand. I don't know why. Rob? .

The villagers' wedding banquet grabbed the cauldron of braised vegetables, which caused many netizens to argue that the cauldron of boiled vegetables was very popular with northerners, and such dishes also appeared at the wedding banquet. At the event, when holding a wedding banquet, there is a custom to grab a big pot of stew. It is this practice that has triggered a heated discussion among many netizens.

Many netizens said it was difficult to understand such a custom. The practice of grabbing cauldron dishes will not only bring bad effects, but also lead to trampling or scalding.

In rural areas, there is a custom of helping and borrowing tables, chairs and benches. In my hometown, there is no custom of grabbing food when holding a wedding. When we hold a wedding, we will invite the whole village to help, help the host's family clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and also help the host's family do some chores and entertain guests.

When I was young, my material life was not rich enough. Whenever someone in the village holds a banquet, he will borrow tables, chairs and benches from the whole village. A family can't have dozens of tables and hundreds of stools. In order to solve the problem of too many people eating and sitting, we will borrow tables, chairs and benches from the neighbors of the whole village, collect the tables, chairs and benches in the whole village, and then manage and distribute them in a unified way.

After the banquet, the host family will not only return the tables and chairs, but also send a big steamed bun to the neighbors to express their inner gratitude. With the passage of time, this custom gradually disappeared, tables, chairs and benches did not need to be borrowed, and the big steamed bread was replaced by instant noodles, beverage cans and other items.