Because although many people have a person's appearance, in fact, their hearts are garbage of fame and money. In order to get these things, the so-called love is just to exchange your body for material gambling! Like Liu Feng, there are ears in the play. In fact, a man with such good ears in a woman is really the goddess we men should pursue. People who have no similar experience can't understand the sadness of Sui Zi and He Xiaoping. In this society, marriage is just a dead letter. How can true love be bound and guaranteed by that paper? In the play, Liu Feng and He Xiaoping didn't get a marriage certificate. Compared with their affection, those forms are insignificant. Liu Feng and his wife do have marriage certificates. What did it give Liu Feng?
In this world, money is a piece of paper, and marriage certificate is also a piece of paper, but the love that really deserves our treasure can't be replaced by any piece of paper, just like the golden necklace of ears in the play, many people regard it as precious gold. Really? That is the innocent heart of the ear, that is the true love of the ear, it is priceless, and no amount of gold can replace it. In reality, many of us ask each other to express their true love by buying diamond rings and gold jewelry. I can't help laughing at their ignorance. Ask your parents, grandparents or grandparents. In their time, how many people could afford gold jewelry? They don't have gold rings or necklaces. What does their love depend on? Many people don't know what is precious and what is priceless. The word "influential little people" is for those who only recognize fame, money and money. If you are not an influential person, you must cherish the love of people around you, whether it is the love of men and women, the love of family, the love of friends, the love of classmates and comrades-in-arms ... The world is beautiful because of them, and life is wonderful because of them.
Read the original first. The author explained that in fact, Liu Feng and He Xiaoping finally got together, and they didn't have sex. They live together. Liu Feng lives in the living room and Xiao-ping He lives in the room. Liu Feng still misses Lin in the past, while Xiao-ping He still has expectations for Liu Feng. Is Liu Feng don't want to, but also by his nephew reluctantly let them together. Finally, Liu Feng also deluded himself that Lin loved him.
1 Liu Feng, a bad guy from an ordinary family, is an activist and has been rewarded in all military life. It should have a happy ending, but the love that didn't start ruined the future. This was the helplessness of the society at that time. At that time, Lin was a child of a noble family and a petty bourgeoisie family. Naturally, he looks down on ordinary children. Even though he is excellent, he is not qualified to be a partner. Then, if an ordinary girl confessed at the beginning of Liu Feng, would the ending be different? At that time, people in the past were actually more willing to report, especially such so-called immoral things.
But in today's society, Liu Feng may be a particularly popular marriage partner, because he is warm-hearted, kind and hardworking, and made many meritorious deeds at that time. It can be described as a typical phoenix male aura with a promising future. Many ordinary girls or women with good family also like this kind of self-motivated man. So people's psychological expectation of Liu Feng is better than that of the author.
He Xiaoping, a loveless child since childhood, has never been cared for by his father or protected by the opposite sex, so if Liu Feng treats her better, she thinks it is love. From Liu Feng's care for her, in those years when she was isolated, even during her illness in a mental hospital, only Liu Feng took care of her, which was a kind of care from the opposite sex. Even beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends, when Liu Feng held her waist, she wanted to be his woman. It can be said that Xiao-ping He loves Liu Feng more.
Lin, her class doesn't allow her to fall in love with a man like Liu Feng, and she doesn't have such personal feelings. As can be seen from the scandal behind her and Xiaosui, it is a class contradiction. In their life, they don't lack food and clothing, and they can get a lot of things without special efforts. Therefore, in their eyes, Liu Feng and He Xiaoping are both ordinary, so that their words and deeds have caused an irreversible situation in life. They think that Liu Feng and He Xiaoping have done it by their own ordinary.
Combining the author's real life, you will find a very realistic thing. The author represents Xiaosui's position. Born in a family with a background, they don't have to worry about anything. They just need to study hard and write some articles. The biggest tribulation in life is probably the divorce of parents, eating and wearing warm clothes, and giving full play to one's talents. Therefore, it is difficult for most of them to understand how hard ordinary people have to work to reach their living standards. And this kind of thinking is also very common in real life. People will think that you haven't succeeded in ten or eight years, and you are still working and getting a very low salary, because you have problems, because you are ordinary and have no efforts. And ignored, the same starting point, a man wearing high-grade running shoes with a full meal is talking about why a man who runs barefoot without even eating can't run fast.
Finally, why Liu Feng and Xiao-ping He are not together. In fact, Liu Feng is still attached to Lin, and what he can't get is always in turmoil. Lin is his. Although Lin's exposure ruined his life, he still felt it was his fault and didn't hate her. This is a stupid idea. And Lin may not remember what Liu Fengchang looks like.
He Xiaoping, in all the hardships, she accepted, but still can't forget Liu Feng. About this is a common problem of a woman who lacks love. There are too many such grievances in love, and maybe she won't regret it in the end. She loves him, which is not normal love, but an ambiguous gratitude.
Looking back at the movie, why didn't the director let them be together? In fact, this somewhat beautifies the love between Liu Feng and He Xiaoping. Because everyone thinks that their lives are similar and their attachment to feelings is the same, they think that they love each other after years of baptism. In fact, this kind of love is very unreliable. Almost all the people in the play live better than Liu Feng, so Liu Feng has no ability to give Xiao-ping He happiness. It can only be said that it is a kind of spiritual companionship, and the original work is not. In the camera, their common life is the realization of the audience's beautiful imagination.
However, in real life, Liu Feng still doesn't like He Xiaoping, because she doesn't feel like a woman like Lin, coquetry, carefree and cute like a girl. However, He Xiaoping may just want to get a man's love, not let a man have love for her. It is a question whether a man chooses the woman who loves you or the woman you love when he marries. Most men don't marry women they don't love, they can only fall in love and be partners. In the original work, Liu Feng respects He Xiaoping more, only sharing the relationship, without the reality of husband and wife, which is more in line with the actual situation. However, if Liu Feng and He Xiaoping are in today's society, they may be living together, but they are not married.