Just as Ren Shuai? always plays a supporting role in the play, Ren Shuai? is also willing to be a "green leaf" outside the play. He doesn't steal cameras or speculate. He tried to hone his skills and do his duty as an actor. He rarely exposes his private life in front of the camera, and he has never exposed a photo of his wife.
So few people know that his close love with his wife is such a romantic story full of fireworks.
In "Parents' Love", Mrding met several objects, all of which were as high as they could be. He chose honesty and morality until he was unmarried. Ren Shuai?'s wife was his first love. When they first met, Ren Shuai? took a fancy to her.
There is a saying circulating on the Internet: Without beauty, there is no love at first sight.
However, Ren Shuai? said bluntly that his wife is not really beautiful. The first thing he saw was that she could live and take care of people.
Ren Shuai? met the Shanghai girl at a party.
At that time, Ren Shuai? was filming in Shanghai, and his friends invited him to dinner. There are many people at a table, some of whom don't even know each other, and they are very formal with each other. Only a girl named Xiaohong has been helping on the table and taking care of drunken people.
Although Xiaohong is ugly among the actors, this enthusiastic girl still makes Ren Shuai? feel good.
Afterwards, Ren Shuai? and a friend inquired about it, only to know that Xiaohong is an ordinary employee. In his spare time, he only advertises and walks on, which is not an insider.
However, Ren Shuai? was attracted by Xiaohong's personality and didn't care about these differences. He took the initiative to pursue Xiaohong. He is introverted and can't speak sweet words, but Xiaohong got the message and the two quickly confirmed their relationship.
And Ren Shuai? proposed to Xiao Hong, but also reflected his true character to the fullest.
Don't talk about star actors now, ordinary couples will make some romantic scenes when they propose. Ren Shuai? didn't prepare roses or rings. She just woke up in the morning and couldn't sleep. She shook Xiaohong around her and told her that we should get married.
Xiaohong is still sleeping in a daze, and the sudden proposal made her confused. Ren Shuai? also felt abrupt and immediately offered to give her time to think about it. Xiaohong also promised to come down and turn over to sleep.
Ren Shuai? thought that the proposal had sunk into the sea, but before lunch, he got a positive reply from Xiaohong. Then in the afternoon, they went to see their mother-in-law with gifts.
Ren Shuai? recalled the mood at that time, saying that neither of them wanted to get married, but both wanted to get married, so that everything could be so natural.
After getting married, Ren Shuai? shifted his focus to his wife's Shanghai, and got many opportunities to appear in TV series. Although she is not popular, she also has a good reputation, and drama appointments keep coming to you. So that although he and Xiaohong are both in Shanghai, they seldom meet.
Career and family can't be balanced, and Ren Shuai? is also embarrassed. Seeing him like this, his wife simply moved to Harbin to take care of her in-laws, took over the burden of the family from Ren Shuai?'s shoulder, and let her husband feel at ease to shoot. Even though Ren Shuai? can't go home several times a year, she doesn't complain.
After marriage, two people get together less and leave more, and they are not deliberately pursuing romance. Ren Shuai? talked about their happy time, that is, when he came home from filming, he gave all the cash to his wife.
Seeing that money is always a happy flower, this little Shanghai woman deliberately patted the banknotes on the table one by one to count the money.
It is said that talking about money in love is the lowest, but between this couple, it seems so happy.
Just like "Parents' Love", there is no dog blood, no affectation, and the marriage and family in plain water are equally touching.
In his career, he chose to retire and study fine arts 13, but he became an actor who crossed the line and proposed in bed at five o'clock in the morning ... How many "hasty" decisions did Ren Shuai? make in the face of life events?
Ren Shuai?, male, 1970, from Harbin. Both parents are intellectuals, and they are very attentive to their son's education and strict in discipline. They sent Ren Shuai? to learn painting from an early age, and originally planned to let his son embark on the road of art.
An accidental "electric shock" completely changed Ren Shuai?'s life.
At that time, a CCTV drama started shooting in Harbin, and a nearby high school recruited a group performance. Ren Shuai?, tall and handsome, was chosen at a glance to play a student in the play.
Although I just made a background board without lines and names, it was only the short life of the crew that made Ren Shuai? think of being an actor. But he doesn't want actors to become famous and make a lot of money. He just likes the atmosphere in which everyone can twist into a rope to play a good show.
After several years of "part-time job", Ren Shuai? completely put down the brush he had held since he was a child, turned to study acting before the college entrance examination, and successfully entered the performance class of PLA Art College to start his career as an actor.
Ren Shuai?'s military art students, and the famous Yan Ni in Tsing Yi.
Ren Shuai?'s artistic career, like Yan Ni's, has experienced a long accumulation. After graduation, he was assigned to the Lanzhou Military Region Combat Drama Troupe and performed on the drama stage for eight years.
The life of the crew is completely different from that of the film and television drama crew that Ren Shuai? yearns for. Local troupes such as Lanzhou Repertory Theatre mainly perform in rural areas.
Ren Shuai? wants to travel around with the tour group, or Gansu, which is sparsely populated, bumpy and difficult to perform.
Moreover, although the literary and art soldiers are iron rice bowls, the allowances for local troupe actors are very small. Ren Shuai? goes home to visit relatives every year, and the local products he bought for his parents are enough for him to spend all his savings. The ticket money depends on borrowing money from his comrades.
Seeing that he will be in his thirties, his savings will reach four figures. Ren Shuai? had to apply to the regiment to allow him to engage in some private work and participate in TV dramas besides theatrical performances.
The regiment did its best for the troupe in Ren Shuai?, but it was a waste to stay in the local troupe, and it was quickly approved.
However, when Ren Shuai? was 3 1 year old and became the pillar of the troupe, he decided to jump ship.
Ren Shuai? didn't "float" because he had the opportunity to appear on TV. On the contrary, he is reluctant to part with this military uniform.
And the reason that forced him to make this choice is no different from ordinary soldiers. His sister was transferred to Shenzhen for work reasons, while his parents stayed at their hometown in Harbin. Seeing their two children thousands of miles away, Ren Shuai was really uneasy, so he chose to leave the army and go home to take care of his parents.
After Ren Shuai? came home, he watched a movie, Saving Private Ryan, on DVD.
The film lasted more than three hours, and Ren Shuai? also cried for more than three hours, bidding farewell to his military career with the tears of the boys.
During his years in the troupe, although Ren Shuai? was unknown, he developed solid performance skills. After entering the film and television drama circle, his excellent acting skills were quickly appreciated and he continued to cooperate with great directors and famous actors. In the screen classics of the past decade, many people can see Ren Shuai?.
However, seeing that many powerful actors who have worked with Ren Shuai? have experienced middle-aged fame, some viewers are worried about Ren Shuai?: When will it be his turn to get angry?
From Zhen Sanjiang, the bandit leader in "Braving the Guandong", to Zhao Youtian, an honest and timid man in "The Old Farmer", to Mrding in "Parents' Love", he has appeared in one word-of-mouth drama after another, but people can't name him. As a representative figure of "red people are not red", Ren Shuai? is considered to be the only one.
Only by showing your face or calling out the name of the character can everyone exclaim, "It's him!"
As a matter of fact, Ren Shuai? is not only good at acting and has a wide range of performances, but also comes from a military background and can bear hardships. In the crew, he also insists that "minor injuries can't leave the line of fire".
When shooting the TV series "Nanniwan", there were many scenes of war, but no matter how dangerous the special effects were, Ren Shuai? always went into battle in person, resulting in many injuries on his face, and there are still scars on his face.
At the most dangerous time, his eyebrows and eyelashes were burnt out in the play, but instead of resting, he stepped up filming, fearing that the injured eyelashes would grow back, so he took a shot.
When Ren Shuai? was asked if he was afraid that leaving a scar would "ruin his appearance" and affect his subsequent performances, he also disagreed, saying that if he really left a scar, it would be good to meet a character with a scar on his face in the future.
In this way, Ren Shuai?, who regards acting as his lifelong career, only makes one or two films every year, although the quality of his works has not decreased in recent years.
What changed his mind was the new life that arrived at the age of 38.
When he was young, Ren Shuai? always wanted to earn more money before he could take a long-term view. He worked hard all the year round, stayed away from his wife, and had been married for many years without children.
And the fact that his wife will be pregnant is totally out of Ren Shuai?'s plan. It was only two months later that the couple discussed it and gave birth to the child.
During the whole year from his wife's pregnancy to delivery, Ren Shuai? had to shoot as planned and only stayed at home for 15 days.
Even when his wife was in labor, he only took three days off on the set. When he got home, he almost held his son and flew back to work immediately.
Since then, Ren Shuai? has worked harder to earn money for his son's milk powder. Until one time he came home, his young son saw him and wanted to shake hands with him, just like a stranger shaking hands with his father.
This brought a great shock to Ren Shuai?. He understands that financial security is a sign of love, but it is not the only way.
From then on, the standard of his acting became quality rather than quantity, and he spent more time at home, playing with his son and sharing housework for his wife.
In the winter of 202 1, Ren Shuai?, who is 5 1, is still on the road. I recently returned to my hometown of Harbin to film, joking that filming in the northeast in winter is a "difference between life and death".
He will share the beautiful snow scenes he has taken and send a warm meal to the people behind the scenes, especially thanking him for taking pictures.
It seems that he made a hasty decision, but no matter at work or at home, he did his duty, tried his best to do his duty, and was lucky enough to be satisfied with the little things in life.
Ordinary and happy, isn't it a success?