Two: unwilling to come. There are differences in appreciation levels. Think about it. When you get married and toast to see the bride, there are metal performances here and there, which is quite lively. Punk or something, can you stand it?
Three: too much trouble. You said there must be some drunks on the table, right? He is going to sing a song. Do you think you can play? Play? He is out of tune or out of tune; Stop playing? So he doesn't drink to scare people into hitting your equipment and hitting you?
Four. After all, people will save more and more trouble. Prices have also gone up, so save it if you can. Even if I don't need a band, I can use a host to do something for nothing, and you can't give me your red envelope. Ha ha laugh
The above is purely a personal opinion, hoping to help you solve the mystery. But to be honest, this question is really boring. If you want to be lively, why not go to that lively place? It is not easy to prepare food and drinks at people's weddings, but also to smile with them. Don't be too serious, it's hard to get confused. Drink and go to bed early, haha