We split the money for the banquet and the wedding, of course, our family offered to bear it. Mom said they are all working-class, which is not easy. How can you call another one out? Hee hee:) As for some odds and ends, such as bedding, wedding dresses and wedding dresses, these are all prepared by our family, wedding photos and so on. We originally wanted to pay for them ourselves, but in the end, my mother-in-law gave money, and both parents were very open-minded and didn't care about it. Everyone thought of something missing, so they bought it directly and didn't care much. Anyway, it's just a negotiation between the two sides! After all, getting married is a big deal. Happiness is the most important thing. Don't care too much. This is our situation, for reference only.