A family holds two happy events in the same year, which is called "Xi Chong Xi". There is another meaning of happiness, that is, newlyweds are forbidden to attend other people's wedding banquets within one month before and after the wedding date, otherwise there will be lawless elements. According to the traditional concept of marriage customs, happiness is considered unlucky. Try to avoid the appearance of happiness when you get married.
Getting married for a year is not good for anyone-nor for yourself. According to the traditional concept, a family holds two weddings and two happy events a year, which is called "Xi Chong Xi". It means that a happy event is a happy event. If there are two happy events, one happy event will wash away the other. Therefore, getting married for a year is not good for anyone, my sister or my brother. No matter who gets married first, it's all a family anyway, and it's not good for anyone in case of an accident. Therefore, in order to avoid unlucky things, it is best to stagger the wedding years between brothers and sisters.
Getting married for a year is not good for anyone-it is not good for relatives and friends. Although there is a saying that you are happy, there is also a saying that good things happen again and again. But the good things here are not necessarily good for the guests, because marriage needs money and gifts. The same family holds a happy event once a year, and money is not a problem. However, if the wedding ceremony is held for two years in a row, the guests will feel bored, and even if they come, they may not be willing. Such a friend will naturally have less sincerity in blessing the couple. In particular, there are many gifts, and the first wedding gift is as many as the second. It is really unbearable for ordinary families to encounter a large amount of money. From this perspective, it is not appropriate for brother and sister to get married in the same year.
Second, modern concepts.
Getting married in one year is not good for anyone-if all brothers and sisters are of marriageable age and have to choose to get married in the same year, who will get married first? Generally, the elder sister gets married first, and the younger brother gets married again. In fact, this arrangement follows two principles, one is that the young and the old are orderly, and the other is to get married first and then get married. If it is a brother-sister combination, the younger sister gets married first, and the older brother gets married later.
It's not good for a brother and sister to get married for a year-they don't pay attention to it. Because modern people's concept of marriage customs has changed a lot, the past thoughts have not adapted to the modern form. Many times, modern people get married together. On festivals such as 52 1, Qixi, Valentine's Day, more people get married together, even in groups. In this case, even brothers and sisters can have a wedding together and get married together.
Finally, when you get married, you don't have to worry too much about which of you brothers and sisters will get married badly within a year. Good and bad are man-made, and your own happiness, even if you get married in the same year, is happiness. Conversely, can brothers and sisters be happy if they stagger their marriage years? Not exactly. Marriage is a free thing. After meeting the legal conditions, get married if you want, and don't think too much. You know, bound by secular ideas, your life will be very tired.