When choosing the right best man, you must be careful and careless. Your close friends in college, brothers, cousins, and even primary school classmates whom you haven't seen for years may strive to be the best man, but no matter who the best man is, you should at least know something about bridesmaids.
The best man and bridesmaid have to wait.
The number of best men can be decided according to personal preference, and there is no special restriction. Traditionally, it is best for the best man and bridesmaid to remain of the same sex, although it depends entirely on you and your financial ability. If you want fewer groomsmen, but don't want to offend friends or male relatives, you can let them be greeters. They can show their seats to the guests in ordinary clothes like others. This will not offend anyone, but also avoid the bad reputation of poor hospitality.
Brothers and sisters can do it.
Choosing the best man is not your business. Your bride may have already planned to let her favorite brother be the best man. As long as this guy is not annoying, you'd better make him the best man. On the contrary, if you want your closest sister to be the maid of honor, the bride will agree. There is no need to follow the tradition completely on this issue, and if you two are open-minded, your sister can stand on your side and play the traditional role of best man, and the bride's brother can accompany her.
Responsible people are suitable.
Who should I choose? The best man should have some taste, because he is going to propose a toast at the wedding reception. Of course you don't want him to say anything inappropriate. He should also be responsible, because he will keep the ring that the groom gave to the bride at that time. In addition, most importantly, he must be very humorous, because the groom's bachelor party before marriage is organized by the best man. Choose an activist in your life as the best man. If you don't find out that you and your best man have a lot in common until the night before the wedding, it's too late. What you need at this time is not nervousness, but a reassuring best man to accompany you before, during and after the wedding. Keep this in mind, and you won't mistake those who forget their rings, get drunk or be absent-minded at the wedding for the best man. If you take the right steps, you can relax.
How to choose a bridesmaid: it is most appropriate for sisters to choose themselves or the groom's closest sister as bridesmaids first; If you are both single, you should choose your best friend. She should know you best, just like sisters have deep feelings. If you get married in a hurry, or your relatives and friends are in other places, and you can't find a suitable candidate at the moment, don't worry, wedding companies are popular everywhere now, and they will help you provide bridesmaids. All you have to do is pay and everything will be fine! She should have a strong sense of responsibility, because she will keep the ring that the bride gave to the groom at that time, and will choose the activists in your life as bridesmaids. If it is not until the night before the wedding that you find that you and your maid of honor actually have little in common, it will be too late. What you need at this time is not nervousness, but a reassuring bridesmaid to accompany you before, during and after the wedding.
You don't have to ask your best friend to be your maid of honor at the wedding. You must ask her to get married this time. Don't just repay kindness, pay more attention to your choice.
Location factor If you expect the bridesmaid to be your right-hand man, then don't invite good friends who live far away or are too busy. Because they may not be able to help you do these things in time.
Once the list of bridesmaids is confirmed, it can be announced. The only bad thing is that invited colleagues take it for granted that they want to be bridesmaids. Don't worry about hurting her feelings, a sincere friend will eventually understand any decision you make.