Hello, I have read your problem description carefully. There are two main reasons for this situation. The first is that you and she have no initiative, and the initiative is in each other's hands. Secondly, the other party may have his own things to do, such as going to work, going to school, doing part-time jobs in his spare time, learning piano vocal music and so on. I suggest you enrich your life and take less initiative to contact. She contacts you once, and then you contact her. In this way, you can not only master the initiative, but also enrich your life and improve yourself. I hope my answer is helpful to you.