For girls, many girls will think that a wedding is their dream. After all, many people only get married once, hoping to make the wedding more formal. For boys, some boys may regard marriage as a state, but they don't have a particularly strong sense of ceremony, and sometimes they don't even want to hold a wedding. There are differences in thinking between boys and girls, so it is necessary for both sides to talk about marriage as rationally as possible.
First, you need to evaluate the financial conditions of two people.
In my personal opinion, if the economic conditions of both of you allow, it is better to hold a formal wedding. For your relationship, when you enter the marriage hall, a wedding can make your relationship more stable, and it can also be regarded as a symbol of your marriage. At the wedding, your family will be further connected, which will help you in your daily life in the future.
Second, there is no need to hold a wedding when the economic conditions are not good.
I am a boy, and I may pay more attention to economic problems and realistic conditions. If the economic conditions of the two of you do not allow, I suggest that you treat the marriage problem correctly. If you force a wedding because of your so-called face and personal feelings, you need to consider whether this will affect your quality of life.
Third, you need to communicate with your boyfriend normally.
When you two have different opinions on marriage, you two need to find a way to calm down and try to communicate rationally. If there is no problem with your relationship, the wedding is just a formality, which needs to be based on your strong economic conditions. To some extent, marriage is not impulsive. If conditions permit, you can choose to hold a wedding. If you two don't have a wedding without being around, it may be more helpful for your later life. As for whether you agree to marry your boyfriend, it depends on your attitude.