1 It's just a custom and etiquette to give a gift bag as a deposit to the relatives of the woman (these relatives will return it to the woman when they get married).
The bride's own bride price money is definitely essential.
The elders at home give them some gifts, and then give them another gift.
Don't worry, as long as the young couple have a good mouth, they can say anything! (This is the truth of the old man Longyou)