Event carding: When men and women met online, they all told each other their unforgettable feelings. They all knew that they were together with the idea of "trying" and wanted to save each other. They just got along well in all aspects, so they chose to get married. On the wedding day, the bride's predecessor appeared in a suit, hugged the bride and wished her happiness. The bride's surprised, unexpected and unforgettable eyes were witnessed by the groom. After learning that the bride was in contact with her predecessor, she tore up the wedding dress angrily and demanded to break off her marriage. In the end, the farce ended in two people breaking up. Some people will applaud and think that the groom's behavior is very Japanese, that the bride's "infidelity" behavior should be punished, and that the bride should rekindle her old love with her predecessor. It is the most correct way for the groom to go alone, but in my opinion, I don't think so.
0 1, hugs and blessings mean letting go of the past. When the groom met the bride, he learned that she had an unforgettable past, and he also fell in love with the bride with the mentality of trying. It happened that during this time, the two got along well and the bride slowly got out of the emotional harm, so they would want to walk into the marriage hall together. The bride may still be obsessed with her ex, and she still has her ex's position in her heart, but since she decided to marry the groom, it shows that she intends to start a new life and want to live with the groom. This is a good start. She didn't cheat or do anything wrong to the groom. Just because her ex came to bless her, she thought her past emotional experience was depressing for a while. Maybe she also wanted her ex to see her happiness, so she hugged her ex and looked out of touch. In fact, the bride intends to make a formal confession with her predecessor, bid farewell to the past on a new road of life, and welcome a new future with the groom. Isn't that great?
02. Contact with your ex can't be stopped. Even the groom was furious, not only because his predecessor came to bless them, but because he found that the bride still had contact information with her predecessor, and the bride had unforgettable feelings for her predecessor. When he learned all this, he felt very angry and felt that he was wearing a green hat. In fact, the bride is in contact with her ex and other friends. They still have a circle to maintain. They are all adults. There is no need to break up, and they will not contact. They will be sad and don't want to tell the groom. She just silently digested and adjusted her mind. I don't think there is anything wrong with what the bride did. She is healing her own wound, without causing any trouble to others. She is just venting her bad feelings, not to mention having contact information. Is this important? It is the bride who gets married and lives with the groom. All of hers belong to the groom, just a WeChat friend. What is there to lose your temper?
03. The groom is too stingy. Finally, at the wedding scene, he ignored the presence of all his relatives and friends, his affection for the bride, and even his face. He openly made a fuss about breaking off an engagement and refused to listen to the bride's explanation. This behavior is really childish. All relatives and friends came to the wedding, and everyone came to bless them. As a result, the groom broke up because of a moment of anger, and all the preparations made before were in vain, and the face of the family was also lost. If there is anything, two people can sit down in private and talk openly. Why are you happy when your communication skills are solved? If there is misunderstanding, how will the groom end up? We are all adults, and the way to solve the problem is to be calm.
Anyway, I think the bride made a mistake first in this incident, but it is not unforgivable or substantive. On the other hand, what the groom did was a real mistake.