Personally, I prefer to get married and have a wedding. Because I think the wedding is not only to celebrate love, but also a kind of etiquette and a way to establish contact between family and friends. Weddings help to enhance the friendship between the two families, and also support and encourage the performance of the couple, which is very important for the couple. If you pay attention to the sense of ceremony brought by the wedding, you can certainly hold a grand wedding, but if you don't pay attention to these, it really doesn't matter whether the wedding is held or not.

You may not quite understand why some people don't have a wedding because of life events, and they have no sense of ceremony. Marriage should have a sense of ceremony, but weddings don't. It varies from person to person, and some people are very afraid of complexity. They don't like the same procedure at the wedding, don't like smirking at strangers from beginning to end, and don't like holding a wedding for the sake of the wedding.

I remember a saying: wedding is an embarrassing large-scale private temple fair. First, I am afraid of trouble. The more young people live this year, the more they believe in Buddhism. Faced with a lot of complicated processes and complicated interpersonal relationships, the thought is big.

Second, it is not cost-effective and wasteful.

The banquets in the hotel are all water, and they are not charged according to the dishes, but according to the grade environment of the hotel, which is very expensive. Coupled with other messy expenses, the gift money received is not enough for the banquet. It is a "debt of gratitude" and is much more collected. People send 800 yuan, and at least pay 1000 yuan next time.

Invited colleagues and friends, many people may be too lazy to come at all, directly transfer money to WeChat and say congratulations. Third, the wedding became a talent show.

I don't know when it started, but many wedding talent shows appeared on the Internet. Everyone imitates, sings, dances, and the people who perform are not embarrassed, but the people who watch are embarrassed. For people who are afraid of society, singing and dancing in public is really fatal.

Regarding whether to hold a wedding, I saw the voice of opposition on the Internet, saying that not holding a wedding and not telling the world would easily breed extramarital affairs. I despise this view, no wedding, no cheating. After all, the wedding is for others to see, whether it is good or not is your own business. Wedding is the happiest and most romantic moment in life. It is of special significance for a girl to become a wife, a boy to become a husband, and a beloved person to become a husband and wife and form a new family. Even if she recalls it one day after many years, she will feel particularly happy and different.

Everyone has their own views on marriage. This sacred moment should be decided by themselves and should not be influenced by family members or others to change their minds. No matter whether marriage is romantic or complicated, it is also a very happy thing to do according to one's own mind.