Maybe the starting point is good, but it will become vicious after being vulgar.
Recently, a couple got married in Zunyi, Guizhou. Relatives and friends tied the groom to a tree and beat him with nettles. The bridegroom cried out in pain, and so did his female friend? All right, all right? . When I saw this news, I didn't quite understand it. Everyone who may know knows that they are getting married. Those who don't know will only think that this man tied to a tree is very pitiful, which makes people suspect that he and those guests have a deep hatred and should be treated like this. When we watch some TV series, we will also see the plot of others making trouble in the wedding room. It is a good thing to make a noise and make the wedding more lively. However, we must also grasp the scale and not let marriage become a particularly bad thing.
Improve the ideological quality of rural population
I think this vulgar marriage custom is still related to the feudal thought of rural people. Many people think that it is harmless to get a car in this way, which may make the marriage life of two people happier, but in fact this is simply nonsense. To solve this problem fundamentally, we must first improve the ideological and cultural quality of rural people and treat other people's marriages politely and kindly. Maybe it's okay for people attending the wedding to make a scene, but for those who hold the wedding, it's only once in a lifetime. Don't let the wedding be his nightmare, but it should be the most romantic and beautiful memory in his life. I hope quarrelsome people will think of others from their point of view. If you are treated like this, will you leave a shadow in your heart? So we should get rid of those bad marriage habits and sincerely bless others.
Relevant communities should also make reasonable suggestions.
To be independent, it is not enough to rely on the efforts of one or two people for this vulgar marriage. If their relevant communities put forward reasonable suggestions, even mandatory requirements, to get rid of this unreasonable marriage quarrel, I believe that even those feudal people will listen to the arrangements of their superiors if they don't understand. But let the local people accept the advanced culture ideologically and make them believe that there is no such thing as gods and ghosts in this world. Slowly, this vulgar marriage will disappear.